Was this recruiter trying to date me again?

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I went on a couple of dates with this girl, she works for one of those recruiting firms where they find your resume on careerbuilder or indeed and if your job is a match they reach out to you via phone and email. Anyways, we went out twice and after the second date she ghosted me, but then a couple of weeks later she called me and emailed me from her job about some position that didn't even seem to be in my line of work. I jokingly emailed back "I'd rather go on a third date, KNOWHATIMSAYING" She didn't respond, but a few months later she did the same thing, that time I just ignored her. Do you think it's possible she was trying to reach out to me again?

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  • Mehereok1
    6 years ago

    Could work in your favor, don't turn it down. Years ago, I lost my full-time job, and went to several temporary services for work. Met a tall. gorgeous German blonde woman and just connected with her. The more assignments I took, even the lousy ones, the closer we got, and we started having sex. She was a married milf in need, and since we got along so well, I filled it.

    The more we went at it, the more calls I'd get for the "better" assignments, including one heavily-sought after Winter job at a sporting facility that everyone knew and asked her about, to her usual answer of we'll see, or I may have those filled already. Yeah, because I was filling her, she was filling me with decent work. Kept me afloat until I found my next full-time job. Even then, I'd still do jobs for her on weekends, followed by sex. I had a good thing going.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Lmao, amazing

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      • Mehereok1
        6 years ago

        It was awesome. One, she's an absolutely gorgeous woman (other business women hated her..always spread rumors that she slept her way to the top when she worked for a large auto company), two, she really did keep me working and paying bills, which I thank her for, and three..The sex was incredible. I knew, from the first time, that she was being ignored at home, and was happy to serve as her sexual outlet.

        She was also into feeding fetishes or what a guy/I liked. Told her I liked long, polished nails, which I do and admit it's my thing, and a few days later, I visited her office and saw she'd gotten nail tips and had them done red. Drove me crazy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Maybe she was just doing her job?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Right... but if I work in accounting why reach out to me for jobs that are totally not in my field?

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        I dunno, maybe she's just not that good at her job. HAHAHAHA!

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  • TerriAngel
    6 years ago

    I think you're lame.
    That's just me.
    No, she wasn't reaching out.
    She's not interested.
    She tried to get you a better job as a friend.
    Plus it looks good on her end, for filling a position.
    Romantically, move on.
    She did.

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    • Protagoras
      6 years ago

      Why would she recommend a job totally outside of my field? How would that reflect on her in a positive way?

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  • Ummitsme
    6 years ago

    I had the opposite problem. I had a chick I met on Tinder looking for a job lol. I work for an international commercial/industrial real estate firm and she had just got her real estate license. After about 10 minutes it was clear she was more interested in a job than me. I had to take my place of employment off of facebook because it connects directly to Tinder.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    You realize recruiters get a commission when they place someone right?
    You were her next pair of shoes, nothing more.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yes, I am aware that she was indeed, a recruiter... but I found it a little strange she found my resume shortly after we stopped dating and reaching out to me for jobs not at all related to accounting that I was allegedly a “good fit” for.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        All she has to do is place you. If you suck, she already cashed the check by the time the employer figures it out.

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