Was this a racial slur? if so, then who were they talking about?
I'm visiting my wife's family here in New York City. Yesterday, while my wife and I were having lunch with some old friends of hers, someone made a remark about the "yoms". I am a 30 year old white male from central Florida and I have never heard of anyone called a "yom". Afterwards I asked my wife and she said to not be so disgusting. I gather that it is normal to use this slur up here. Can anyone tell me what a "yom" refers to? Is it a normal slur?