Was my sexual developement normal?

this story was inspired by a previous post here about what is the normal age for consent... So...was my sexual development normal?
i was a horny kid and masterbated all the time,my first sexual encounter was with my girl neighbor we were about 8 & 9, we even asked eachother if we were gonna be "gay", but we knew we werent, she is now married happily w children and we never talk about it any way i couldnt wait for the first time to happen but i am not aggressive or was i brave enough to initiate anything, well at 14 it happened and of course was disappointing, we were drunk and it was lame , then then next time was with a 26 yr old who became my boyfriend for about a year.. he was a lame alcoholic drug dealer and he wouldn't even let me get all the way naked without feeling guilty.. now i look back on that shit and think wtf what was i in such a hurry for. by the time i turned 16 my new 22 year old boyfriend was givin it to me the way i wanted it but turned out to be such a negative jerk that by the end of our 3 yr relationship i hated him so much and anytime i let him finally get some it felt like i was being molested... luckily i was educated enough to use protection and birth control...