Was it normal for me to have lied?

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So I met my current boyfriend online, at the time of meeting him, I lied about some stuff. I feel horrible about it, but what's worse is so much time has passed and I still haven't told him. We're near living together, and I just feel so guilty. (I lied to him about some pretty simple stuff that I was embarrassed about at the time 2 years ago.) Do you think it's normal to have kept this going for so long out of fear he won't forgive me?

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    guys dont care about most lies as long as its not the two big ones like:

    I'm cheating on you or
    Sorry I forgot I was born with a penis

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  • amxmachine
    13 years ago

    @soccer2 he manerpulated u. he lies i garuntee it, he needs to get real. he used saying that and putting that front to get u to think u owed him something. its the oldest mindfucking in the book. I USED TO DO THAT ALL THE TIME TO SUCCESSFULY INCREASE MY CHANCES OF FUN STUFF. honestly no one real lives in the past so faking dissapointment is just extra hot sauce to his wings. he is still with you so he was actually happy you told him this but he had to speak "in character" so he mentally could stay on top. if he expected ur trust right away hes a douchebag thats, oh yeah i say it again... unreal. he may be good in all other areas but yeah i see right through that shyt

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Guys do care if u lie. I lied t my bf about something that was stupid. When I finally told him he was mad because I didn't trust him enough to tell him in the first place. It really hurt him. And I felt terrible when I realized how sad he was that I ruined his trust

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  • ragefultuna
    13 years ago

    Guru u just made my day haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think it's time u fess up about those things before even more time goes by. Chances are if they were small insignificant things, then he won't be mad unless you never tell him the truth. It's not good to lie in a relationship, no matter what it's over.

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  • lottolose
    13 years ago

    Dont lie honey.. It's not good.

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