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is it normal that i always want the people i cant have like i have never like one of my friends boyfriends and then as soon as she got him there was an attraction is it normal? or i like this girl when she is not avalible but when she is my atraction kinda goes away not completly but it is not as strong.. or am i just wierd?
Yes I only want girls from oppressive cultures/religions who don't date white men such as Middle-Eastern or Pakistani. The more inaccessible they are the more they attract me.
We're all attracted to people in relationships because they aren't worried to be who they are since they're not trying to impress someone. If you just think that the only reason you're attracted to people in relationships is because of this, you'll realize that everyone can be attractive, once you get to know them. Remember, no one is normal. We all act in to impress people, but the "normalest" ones are usually the ones acting the most.
Maybe you feel, subconsciously or consciously, that these people must have something good to offer if another person wants them. Let's say a bunch of people want one guy. You know little to nothing about him, but now your thinking if everyone wants him so bad there must be something special about him. He is now worth giving notice to. Or quite simply you want what you can't have. What is forbidden. It's okay, there there.