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I have been married 30 years--and I want my wife to kinky things--like play with my butt--have a threesome--use sex toys on me--is this ok?
It is more than simply ok. It is natural for a guy to want to feel different pleasures apart from the usual of simply cumming. Women are the lucky ones because men pleasure them for ages, before the final act so they are constantly on a sexual high much longer than men. So go ahead and mention it to yo9ur wife. Tell her your desires and your fantasies about being penetrated and used.
Good luck.
I think that "normal " and "abnormal " aren't going to apply here...in my opinion. I can only base my opinion on things I have seen and have been exposed to. I live in the South, and though I am progressive and live in a metropolitan area, I still have some pretty traditional values on SOME things. I just put myself in your wife's shoes and on one hand, if I had been married to you for 30 years, you should have respect for and and absolute adoration for me. On the other hand, we have been married 30 years so we should be totally comfortable with one another....
I dunno, man. Slippery slope you're climbing there...
You need to use lots of compliments. Say to her, "I get so excited when you tell me about kinky things you want to do."
Fuck her all the way up her poop chute and make her suck your shitty cock and nut sack.
Silly question why have you left it so long into your marriage.surly more fun when younger