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My girl is a nervous wreck and she is very nervous and scared to take steps with me, how can I guide her through things without forcing things? Is it normal to feel like you NEED lots of touching and stuff?
Just be super gentle if she wants you to be more passionate then you can go further. Tell her you care about her less in words and more in hugs and etc. prove to her that it's not just hit and miss that's what scares girls.
I'm in your situation my girl has hit some turbulence to the point I'm like the only person she smiles for. If we're not watching music videos she likes to move my arms around her and hug her. Sadly for me mine is very possessive which makes me a little uncomefortable. But she's loves it when I hold her give her a back rub. Lucky for us we skipped over the awkward part and we are drowning in each other's love(we were lucky).
I guess what I'm getting at is prove to her you want to be there and sometimes the first step Ito guiding is proving she can lean on you for support.
If you don't want to force things, then don't force them. Show her that you respect her needs as much as your own and let her go at her own pace. She'll appreciate you more if you don't pressure her or "guide" her or use whatever word you want to use.
If you care about her, my suggestions would be to let her take her time and assure you don't want her to do anything she's uncomfortable with. Don't try to rush things or pressure her into it. Doing so can make matters worse.
Supposedly, touching is a need. However, I'm not sure how accurate that is because there are those that don't like being touched often. Personally, I can find touching to be uncomfortable and I don't think it's a need for me.