Want her to use me

There is this girl who I really like, ever since I can remember. I went to the school dance alone, asked her to dance and she said no.

Even though she said no reluctantly, it hit me like a bullet. It took me all weekend in isolation to pull it together.

A few days after that, there was a small explosion in the woodshop and I realised that I should not waste my time thinking about her.

So, I started ignoring her. I would not look at her, talk of her, and rarely even thought of her. I had moved on, I thought.

Later in the year I befriended a complete loser, this hurt my popularity. His constant negativity put me down.

After a while he faked a mental breakdown to get out of taking a test, he screamed at me like I was mean and the teacher kept asking me what I did, nothing.

So I started being mean to him when he came near me, ( keeping him away so he could not hurt my rep any more )

After this I made new friends, got new clothes, and most importantly I once again felt like I could take on the world.

This general character improvement helped me earn some respect, and some attention from the girl.

I kept catching her looking at me, and started getting caught eyeing her( on purpose)
She even smiled at me a few times and I felt myself beginning to like her again.

On the last day of school, she flirted with me a little, and I was hooked.

I know she is the kind of girl that would manipulate me and use me for attention, and that makes me want her more, because I know that I could keep her coming back for more.

is it normal that I want her to use me?

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Based on 88 votes (39 yes)
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  • Ldizzy1234

    This sounds like a really bad case of lust. I think as hard as it is to do, move on. Move on, because its not normal for you to just let her use you so you and her can get a little bit of satisfaction from one another here and there. It's not fair for you.

    This girl you speak of, she probably seems so extraordinary to you because she seems out of reach. And I bet shes your complete opposite too, isn't she? We want what we can't have. It really sucks, and I've been there before so many times. I know how you feel. But when you step back away from the situation and really look at it closely, you realize that she's just stringing you along, and that she's taking up too much of your time.

    If you're so hung up on her, you're gonna miss opportunities that could be ten times better then a girl who just leads you on. You asked her to your school dance, she said no? Let her go. That girl isn't worth it. You'll find someone way better. And when you do, you'll look back and think it was dumb of you to want someone who was really just way too cold towards you.

    And this might sound a little silly, and I'm not really a fan of Taylor Swift. I only like maybe... 3 or 4 of her songs, but this definitely reminds me of her song "cold as you". The lyrics make me think its the perfect words for a situation like this. Look it up dude. Seriously.

    And good luck man!

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  • pambambam

    hahahah what does the guy have to do with her? XD

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  • CDmale4fem

    It's amazing the things some guys will do in the hopes of getting laid. So I hope you didn't buy her a car and a house. Roll your integrity back in, let her cum to you for awhile and see how bad she wants you.

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  • AngAnders112

    I will burn for you
    Feel pain for you
    I will twist the knife and bleed my aching heart
    And tear it apart
    I will lie for you
    Beg and steal for you
    I will crawl on hands and knees until you see
    You're just like me

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