Want a threesome but bf doesn't

i'm bi and my bf knows it. i want a threesome but everytime i bring it up he changes the subject. is this normal? p.s. i want it with another girl.

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  • VioletTrees

    If he's not interested, stop pushing him about it.

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  • dom180

    Of course it's normal. He clearly isn't interested; if I were you I'd give up.

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    • kelili

      Totally agree

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  • ryan2k12920

    wtf he is the luckiest guy ever! and the stupidest. i would love for my gorlfriend to be bi so we can share licking a girls pussy :P

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  • Your normal, he's not what guy wouldn't want a FFM threesome? (other than a gay one, lol) He's possibly worried you're gonna prefer the girl more than him and go full lezza haha, tell him to man up as it will be worth his while.

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  • dude_Jones

    Give him an ultimatum. Either he showers with you and your friend, or he's history.

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  • Enjoy

    Listen. This desire of yours is never going to go away. In time you are going to want to go behind his back. I've been married 28 years and I have this unfulfilled burning desire and it only leads to so many more unfulfilled desires and am very unhappy. You are going to have to make a choice. Sorry

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    • kwloverhoss

      You are correct, I was married to a woman for 20 years, she did not want to try the things I wanted to try, and I grew (quickly) to resent her closed mindedness. I should never have continued a relationship with someone I was clearly not compatible with.

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  • KaaleeBund

    tell him clearly wat u want n like, it is very good idea, even try it with 2/male u will love it too.
    i have done it and it was amazing....

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  • FJK_frm_AK25

    Ur bf is fuckin weird.

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  • Nokiot9

    Lol give him the option of the threesome or taking it from u with a strap on.

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  • IBMelissaG

    Find a girl, and bring her over. Let him choose what to do when you kiss her.

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  • golfdude68

    it is completely normal so I would not worry about it. If you want to see yourself in a sexy lesbian scene then I would be happy to photoshop your face into hot lesbian porn pics. I do this all the time and can make it look just like you by cropping your face from a normal pic of you and then photoshopping into a lesbian scene onto the woman's body. I just need good clear high res face pics of you. You can send them to me at [email protected] if you are interested.

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  • Sailor_Cosmos

    Everyone has their beliefs and sexual preferences. Most guys would love a three way but some are more reserved and would rather not. Talk to him, like sit him down and discuss it and make sure he cannot avoid it. Tell him you love him and want to have a new experience with him. It could be as simple as him being insecure about his ability to please two women at once. Or a trust issue or other concern that needs to be worked out before you both can consider having a three way.

    If you've never done it before its a great experience and has brought me and my man closer and we are still good friends with the girl as well. Granted, we are in our late 20's and Im not sure how old you and your man are, but it does take a certain level of maturity to add this into your relationship, so if you are younger you might want to wait till you are a bit more grown up.

    Either way talk to him!

    Good luck!

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  • NaughtyWill

    I guess he is just worried that a threesome may make you go full out lesbian, and then he'd lose you.
    Did you offer to let him find the girl?

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  • TwilightPsycho

    What a prude. He should be appreciative of having such an awesome girlfriend. If it's important to you, then you deserve better.

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  • blue_burr

    Maybe you make him feel unwanted or not good enough to have to ask to bring in another partner.

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    • that's so far from the truth i love my bf but i have never had a threesome with a guy and a girl. yes me and 2 other girls but never a guy and a girl i just want to try it once with him. and plus whenever he watches porn he likes the threesomes so what's wrong now.

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  • Jeaneathean

    In my experience sex should only ever be between two people who love one another. Chuck anything else into the equation and you are heading for trouble.

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    • TwilightPsycho

      Prude detected.

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      • Jeaneathean

        With the greatest of respect, my genuinely held personal beliefs do not a prude make. I have seen and done more than you would ever believe, and my comment is based on personal experience....

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  • harley1976

    He is nuts

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    "is it normal" ... to be honest that's a bit of an insult to him.

    You already know he's not interested in it.

    But instead of accepting it, you want to ask if he's "normal" - as if he's somehow abnormal or wrong for not wanting the same thing you want?

    Perhaps instead of pushing him into it, or trying to call him "abnormal" for having different tastes... you should consider actually communicating with him.

    Not just telling him what you want, but actually listening to what he wants too.

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  • hunterXXXX

    Dont fall in love :P

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  • Let me get this bi.
    You're a girl. You have a boyfriend. You want to have sex with him AND another girl.
    So, he gets to fuck two girls at the same time.

    Yeah, he's a terrible guy. Dump him and come be with me.
    You can let as many girls join as you like with me.
    No problem.

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  • randypete

    i would love a girl like you dump the prat

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  • 2 girls? And he said no? huh....

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  • lfox

    Well me and my bf talk about it a lot, fantasy am even pretend another girls there, I make him talk to me saying as I'm fucking you she's in front etc, it's working for us at the moment as a quick fox and hopefully this will change his opinion, might help you x

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  • fullhouse

    May be he wants a threesome with a guy.. Have you asked? :-P Just kidding. Offcourse he dosen't want to share you. or may be he's afraid you like girls more and will dump him :-P

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  • quentari

    he may not be comfortable with the thought of sharing you or being with someone else while you're in the room

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    • protounge

      I would share you with everyone and anyone ;)

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  • SamCarterX

    Everyone has fantasies. Just keep dreaming, maybe it'll happen one day.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Don't force it on your boyfirned.

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  • Sensate

    Only straight guys who are insecure in bed wouldnt want to have 2 girls imo

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    • protounge

      I've tried so hard to get my ex to find another girl to join us. Never happen though! :(

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    • newtdup

      you're wrong about that. my wife wanted me to have sex with her gf a few years ago, just so she wouldn't have to be up to having sex nonstop for over 3 hours. it had nothing to do with insecurity in bed. how the hell do i know what her gf was carrying at the time. yes, i'm paranoid, it keeps me alive.

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  • TonybigCock

    U need to get a boyfriend who feels the same way

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