Wake and bake

leaving him would be a good thing. I smoke weed and when I run out im not the greatest person in the world but I would never abuse anyone. and if he loves you he wouldnt do it either.

you should probably report the abuse
and stop buying weed
do you buy it because he gets mad if you don't?
you could put some kind of happiness drug into his drink then convince him to be nice and do this as often as possible until he listens or something
please forgive my ideas if they are ridiculous
i hope this stops soon!

grow it so he doesnt run out =)

Call the fucking police

Sounds like he has anger issues and the weed calms him down.I've had friends that were angry all the time then they tried weed now they're calm and happy.Why complain now anyway you knew what he was like before you got knocked up and married him.

So, what you are saying is that his pot is more important to him than you are.

And he is more important to you than the safety and well being of your child...

And you are still with him, WHY?

NO pot smoker is THAT good in bed-- seriously.

He obviously has some sort of underlying problem and he's using weed to avoid it. Everyone needs a sober break because you cannot function properly in life if you are constantly high, just like it's not cool to be drunk all of the time.

Weed isn't really physically addictive, but it does take a good day or two to get it out of your system after you've been high pretty much all of your waking hours. However, he can still by psychologically dependent on it because he has some other major problems.

The agitation (being mean) that he's experiencing would go away if he stopped smoking it for at least three days. Tell him while he's high how you feel because he'll be a lot more open and pleasant - videotape it and show it to him the next time he's sober. Try to encourage him to get some professional help from his doctor and to go to a Narcotics Anonymous meeting.

This is not right, my first question is Why would you marry somebody who would do that and if you didnt know THEN DIVORCE. CHange your name take your kids get custody of them reprt it. Especially report it if he starts getting physically adapt to it. That means is he gets so adapt to weed that he gets physical when he doesnt have it then report it to the police. Be careful because its not always safe!

Weed's not addictive, but some people get addicted to the escape you get from smoking it. I think you need to start digging and figure out what it is he's trying to get away from.

i think you may need to send him to rehab. i think people get addicted to weed, but no one wants to admit it or are in denial. it's really weird.

My aunt is in the same exact situation as you. Now, although weed is not physically addictive, it is extremely psychologically addictive, especially among addictive personalities. The reason he gets mean, in my opinion, is because he is frustrated that he either can't find any, or doesn't have the money to get any. For the sake of you and your child, you need to tell him to either cool it and stop smoking so much, and if he refuses, tell him that you're willing to walk out that door if he doesn't come to a conclusion on what to do.

You can't live like this and allow him to take his frustrations out on you and your daughter over a plant that isn't even addictive and not necessary to begin with. I used to be like your husband. And then I got pregnant and quit smoking. I smoke every now and then now, and because of this, I've learned to appreciate weed.

as much as i support weed this guy just seams like a loser like hes dependent on weed tell him to grow it google it if u wann stay with him or it cold ust b that he doesnt like u and can only tollerate u when hes phucked up

Bud obviously has a mental hold on the guy but I smoke everyday and I get somewhat irritated but not like this guy. You could just stop buying and have a real talk with him and how it's affecting your relationship and the entire family. It sounds like it could go either way...I'd be prepared for either outcome if I were you.