Waiting for the perfect moment of talking to someone?

Is it normal to wait for the perfect moment to talk to someone you're interested in?

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Based on 27 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • Tempest-au

    Perfection is an unobtainable goal. Sometimes it's a worthy goal to set as a "target", but know you'll never get there.

    There will never be a "perfect" moment. Settle for "somewhat good" - you know, not while she is in the middle of an argument with someone, or immediately after a dog just pissed on her leg.

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  • IMissMary

    The perfect moment = NOW!

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  • BeamDiamond

    Of course it is! Why would you want to talk to somebody just willlynilly? You don't have to settle for somebody's own way of life. You're fine. Just talk when ya wanna talk. Just like on here. You wanted to ask a question because you were curious and concerned,right? You should apply that whenever you are interested in something or a person. Really be honest in your motives and don't waste time with small talk.

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  • riffraffy

    The stars will never align at a time where all your social anxiety fades away. Only by constantly making 'imperfect' conversations will your skills improve.

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    • scooogy

      But what about her expected tolerance then?

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  • Fall_leaves

    Don't wait, perfect moments don't exist, make your moment now.

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  • Goku19

    Sounds like wastage of time and missing of opportunity. What if target goes away tomorrow ?

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