Waitig for the perfect guy.

As the title says, I'm waiting for the perfect guy.I'm not satisfied with the guys I'm dating. Right now I've met a boy. oh yeah he is wonderful, but there are things in him missing, and just because of that i could never be together with him. And also my parents doesnt like him and ceratinly NOT my brother. Pehaps that's one of the reason I dont want to be in a relationship with the guy. I dont want people to find out I have a boyfriend, not my family, nor my friends.Because some of my friends does not want me to be in a relationship with him. And this happens every time. Actually I have no idea which one of those factors that makes me want to get rid of him. Perhaps the reason is that the negative I hear from others affects my view of him.
Before Isaw myself as strong and confident, but just the fact that I'm on this site and searh for help about something like this just shows how vulnerable I am. Perhaps thats why I'm so affected of what everybody thinks about me.

I hope you can give me some advice or consideration. Iwould really appreciate it.
Ad I'm sorry about my english. I know it's really bad. Thank you.

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  • Dreamboat

    You are probably just too busy trying to see if his social status is as high as yours and really care what others think if they see him and you together. If your parents and brother dont like him then its not a good idea to be with him.If they dont like him its more than likely for a good reason(ex.he may seem like a cheater or someone that might hurt u later on,he may seem like a troublemaker,etc,etc,only they know why they dont like him) and its better to not be together if its going to be that way but that is just my 3 cents.haha

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  • You're normal. Don't ever lower your standards. And don't ever settle for less. That only makes men lazier and lazier (as if they're not already). Girls are making themselves too easy. They deserve the best, and there's no point settling for something they don't have to, and there are better options out there.

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    • Dread-pool

      i'm lazy.

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  • AngAnders112

    One of these days you'll get tired of being alone and lower your standards like the rest of us.

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    • 53739

      Lol

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    • Hahaha agreed.

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  • no you'll probably end up with a thuggish white wanna be black but your no guy is who you'll end up with

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  • now then perhaps if i made one like this it would get deleted the next day because i have my dear i sorry i had to mock but perhaps sounds funny

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  • ? how do you get by with starting your sentience out like this Waitig for the perfect guy. with out adding iin/or/is it normal before you write you first sentience

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  • There's no such thing as "the perfect guy." Never was, never will be.

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  • Dee(M)

    Nobody is perfect. If you go around focusing on their faults you'll find that every man in the world will never match up to your standards.

    A relationship is give and take. Start giving them consideration and stop taking all their faults to heart. I'm sure you have your own faults and they put up with those without complaining about them.

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  • liveistanbul

    Hi,

    I hope, one day you can find a loyal and good lover. You seem to be deserving him.

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  • tox

    There is no perfect person. Everyone is going to have/do one thing or another that you won't like. So I say just stick with the one you like the most.

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    I just read like 4 lines of ur story and im just goin to say their is no such thing as a perfect.

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  • stonecutters93

    You shouldn't choose not to be with someone because people don't approve. It's what YOU want that matters, and your friends and family should accept your decision regardless of whether or not they like it. However if he is lacking qualities that you're looking for in a suitable partner that's a different story. Don't hold out for the perfect guy, everybody has flaws, just look for someone who makes you happy.

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  • dappled

    Your English is fine. Better than some of the people in my own country and I actually am English. As for your question, perfection isn't really out there. Because we sometimes go into relationships (and marriages) expecting perfection, it's inevitable we'll be disappointed.

    You shouldn't stick with someone who isn't right for you, but if you find someone you can make a life with (despite occasional problems and the judgements of other people), then it's worth sticking with.

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  • Your english is not bad.

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