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What Would You Do?
You are in a relationship with a person who wants to wait until marriage before having sex. You two invest so much time into each other. Then she/he gets raped by another person.
| leave her/him | 4 | |
| love her/him | 6 | |
| try to talk him/her into having sex with you | 0 |
Love them, and hunt down the rapist, kill them, rip out their teeth and cut off their fingers, dump the teeth and fingers in a nearby body of water. Then carefully put a tarp down in the back of my car and put the wrapped corpse on it, drive it out of county, or if feasible out of state, then tie it down with concrete blocks and dump it in a body of water. Then bleach the shit out of the back of my car, try to sell my car, and then never discuss the matter again.
He or she getting raped wouldn't make me want to coax them to have sex with me. I'd still respect their wishes unless they say otherwise. Though I'd probably do something ghetto like make a few phone calls to my cousins and we'd jump the person who hurt him or her.
I wouldn't leave a partner if they were raped under any circumstances, that's just horrible at a time when they need support.
That said I'll be honest, I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who didn't want any kind of sex at all. It would be a deal breaker
I wouldn't be with someone who wanted to wait. Sex is an important part of an intimate relationship. It's important for there to be a degree of sexual compatibility, which you won't discover with such prohibitions. Furthermore, an individual wanting to wait until after marriage won't fully understand his/her sexuality without experience, and may discover things that either ruin the compatibility or make him/her realize that the relationship wasn't quite what he/she was looking for (for a whole host of possible reasons). It's also possible that such a philosophy would be used to hide something that might put the partner off (e.g. exceptionally small penis in a man).