Violent fantasies
I find that when i am around people i dont like or thinking about them i tend to get violent fantasies of beating them up and i feel really uncomforable about it. Am i normal?
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I find that when i am around people i dont like or thinking about them i tend to get violent fantasies of beating them up and i feel really uncomforable about it. Am i normal?
i think you should talk to someone about it. i'm not saying that you'll turn into a psycho killer or anything, but fantasies like that can sometimes lead you to want to try it out in real life.
I think everyone has those moments...at least I hope so.
I have those same thoughts, but at least we feel guilty later right?
bear in mind these people are people who i really do not like to be around or near. so i roleplay in my head that person starting a fight with me, to which i beat the living crap out of them with my bare hands, no knives or guns or bats or any weapons... i think this is my way of dealing with my anger towards people.
Normal or not, who cares. All that counts is that you have.an outlet which to funnel obvious pinned-up frustration/anger. Boxing, punching bag, vigorous exercise. Then, if you can afford it, get with a therapist to take a deeper look at the underlying cause of these fantasies.
In spite of previous comments, you fo not sound like anything of a sociopath. A sociopath, lacking a conscience, would not think twice about such fantasies but simply ways to make them happen
Hey, I think I know what you mean. I sometimes visualise everyone around me just dropping dead. Sometimes I imgaine bending down and getting back up to see that everyone has been beheaded and there is blood everywhere.
I'm being totally serious. And it's not even about people I hate or dislike, it's about anyone. (I guess that's pretty freaky, huh?)
But then I try to imagine myself killing someone in cold blood, and I can't. I can think of many ways they could die by my hand though. Because I'm pretty sure that if I had to kill to survive I would be able to. Just not in cold blood.
Usually I just get this feeling when I'm bored though...
Sometimes I have violent fantasies, too, but it doesn't just happen, I purposefully do it for stress relief or out of boredom. So if it just kind of happens to you, without you deciding to do it, I find that odd, yeah. If you're uncomfortable with it and you ask if it's normal, then I guess you don't feel compelled to actually do it? I don't really feel you're at more risk than anyone else, to harm people.
It's probably fantasies. Though some odd fantasies i would say.
But are you normal? . . . I'm not so sure. I need to ask the question back at myself. lol kidding
It's kinda based a person's likes and personality i think. Like how some people like to watch horror than romance craps. So it's perfectly normal i'ld say. It depends on how old you are too.
For example, for a person of young age like teenagers to just above twenty, it's probably the influence of movie or games. I used to have that too "alot". So don't worry. It would go away normally.
When you feel the killer instinct too much, try to meditate ( and watch less killing stuffs for a while). At least it worked with me. ;)
i even have fantesies about klling and hurting my familly i dont like it and sometimes it scares me :(
in a way its normal yeah...
to me anyway... i can be around some complete tw*t and just imagine ways he could offend me enough to lash out and beat the living daylights out of him...
weird innit?
dude i do too!! like even to the point of ALMOST killing them but then like iono i snap out of it! i would never do these things in real life but i fantasize about them all the time?
its normal i sometimes feel like smashing a chair on someones that i hate smash it in their back or face lol
I sometimes have fantasies of me being hurt, like yesterday I was running and I passed a bin and I imagined it bowing up and me being torn to shreds, everyone in the street coming towards me and screaming at the horror and mess of it. i imagine people attacking me, what my husbands reaction would be if the car I was driving crashed etc..
I also do what you do too, and I also wonder what its like to have sex with people I've just met. I don't think this is normal. But maybe we both have very visual brains!
I think what you are doing is taking the anger you have at them and roleplaying it in your head to diffuse it instead of inflicting it on yourself and them. I personally don't think it means you have any intentions of doing it in real life and I think if you can see the positive in it, diffusing your angry feelings, then you can use it to your advantage.
the fact you recognize that as something odd, and it makes you feel uncomfortable makes me think you're normal.
That's not even bad. I'm a girl and the littlest thing makes me pissed off. I would think of all the ways they'll die.
Im not really sure if thats at all,normal.
But i suggest you watch yourself carefully because this sounds like the first stage of becoming a homicidal sociopath......sounds like your similar to "Hannibal lector"
Dollface-
Your comment is the perfect example of someone not knowing much at all about serials and how they operate.
In the future...please refrain from using a movie character as a point of reference for a real life problem. That mode of thinking is FAR more abnormal then somebody who is experiencing a mild form of a frustration fantasy.
I find your comment to be thoughtless, reckless, and without any basis in non-fantasy life.
There are these wonderful creations that are called "Non-fiction" books that will often times offer hundreds of years of observation in 3 to 400 pages. Find one and expand your opinions past a "cartoon" level. Respect your power as an individual with an opinion.
i feel the sme way but theres nothing i can do abut it just go with thr flow.
It depends on the reason why you don't like them or what they do to you in real life.
You might want to be a stronger person and reveal to them the things you don't agree on,
I think your getting angry at yourself for not acting on your opinions toward them.
One day you will get wiser and realize that there is nothing wrong with you at all.
Just don't hurt anyone physically, you will regret it, people that want to hurt someone should just hurt themselves, that way they get to hurt someone and no one else gets hurt