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I have zero friends and I never go out. I'm so uncomfortable around people, I feel that everyone I see is a million times better than me. I hate myself, hate how small my life has become. I don't know how to get out. I just want someone to talk to, watch movies with. I'm so alone.
I feel the same sometimes. It's just that I can't trust anyone, and for good reason. Everyone seems to have a darkness they're hiding, or ulterior motives, or perversions, sicknesses. The only person a girl can rely on herself :(
I understand how you feel. I've always been a very shy, timid person. I've always had a few friends, but use to never go out and do anything at all. I've got a bit better about it over time, partially from situations that forced me to interact more with other people, but I still don't have a normal social life.
Just hang in there and try to make a friend. Someone with similar interests. Its surprising how one friend can suddenly lead to meeting more people. I know its not easy though.
Ugh im tired of pposts like this....
the ONLY way out of antisocialness is to PUSH yourself out of it!!
Go out and push yourself and get out of your comfort zone!!!
this is the only way!
if you dont push yourself to meet people you will never meet friends!
and surely you will meet assholes along the way that will put you down but thats how people are, welcome to earth!!!
and goodluck
I feel the same. Except I have anxiety too and I just get realllly nervous. Are you depressed?
The same happens to me!
I don't go out. I don't have friends. Always bored! I just feel alone, you know?
If you want to talk, get in touch!
But I'm still learning english.
That's it!
think positive......and dont think negative......make changes...chages are good....good luck....
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time right now. You don't deserve it, you should remember that. You are just as good as anyone else you see, I know that can be hard to embrace. Anyway I was wondering if you go to school? Sometimes just taking a low unit class (they tend to be the cheapest) even at the community college can open you to an experience that gives you more confidence and helps you meet new people. Plus if you go to a college of some sort, they usually have free counsling groups or even one on one sessions. They may be limited and far in between but like Ollieo (like that user name) and Flowers were saying, it can help a lot. If those options don't work, try signing up for things your community or library might be doing. I went to a cool little calligraphy workshop one time and all I needed was my library card. I know it can seem daunting (I'm very shy myself, many people are in shoes like yours) but that's what helped me break out of my shell and I am so happy I have. School, work and your community have more to offer than you might think so try it out if you can :) Hope for all the best and try to post back with your results, it would be nice to see you be successful!
I know how it feels. I agree with Ollieo: counselling may be able to help.
How long has this been going on for? Also, do you live alone or with your family?
Are you just very shy? Do you know what is stopping you from making friends?
I don't know where you live or how old you are but joining various clubs could be a start. You may have to force yourself but I doubt you will regret it.
That is really sad - loneliness van make one feel so low. Do you think you could get a bit of counseling around your discomfort with people if that is what is stopping you from doing anything about this on one hand, but being so alone on the other?