Urges to cheat?

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I'm in a relationship with a great girl, going on 8 months. Not too long, but long enough to know whether or not you want to be with them for an extended amount of time.

My problem is that I find myself looking at other women and wondering what it would be like to mess around with them. I'm not interested in them any further than that. I've never cheated (ever, in any way) in any of the long term relationships I've been in. I've slept with about 10 girls total, so its not due to lack of sexual experiences (I'm in my very early 20s).

Sometimes I look at other girls and it just drives me crazy inside because of how badly i'd love to, honestly, just get their clothes off and have at it.

My sex life isn't lacking with my girlfriend, and I am still very much attracted to her.

I don't want to cheat, nor believe I will, but I'm tired of going crazy about other women. So, is this normal?

It drives me nuts!

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    I think this is perfectly normal, for that reason my bf and I have an open relationship, so if I see someone I would want to fool around with i can, and vice versa... Problem being I know a lot of people don't go for that kinda thing. I'm a chick, early 20s if that matters :p

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  • DeliMeat
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal for sure. I'm pretty much in the same exact situation with my girlfriend right now. My girlfriend is short and cute but I get the same exact feeling as you at times. I asked my girlfriend if she would do a threesome with another girl and me and she doesn't feel comfortable doing that which I understand. I honestly feel that "cheating" before marriage is wrong but it might have to happen to know for sure if the girl you're dating really means that much to you. Hope this helped a bit and good luck with whatever you decide. I'm also in my early 20s too.

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