Urgent: what is my brother trying to do?
Let me make this clear first: me and my brother don't have a relationship at all, he stays in his room on the laptop all day eating fast food and rarely eating home dinners. It's very Wierd for us to hug, kiss on the cheek, communicate, anything, you name it.
So, A few months before my brother has been acting Wierd, I would catch him looking at my chest but that was only once, he would be acting more different around me, it's also very rare for him to go out of his room like I said in the previous paragraph, but today he has touched my bottom, he made it seem like he was reaching our cat but his hand 'accidently' brushed against me, I confronted him and he was just silent and went, I am really worried. He is just not normal, not like he was for the past months or so, I'm very touchy on this subject because I had a stepfather who molested me about 1-2 years ago, my trust in men had completely vanished and still is, I'm even hesitant of my father! Well, now this leads to something else, he sleeps on the same bed as me hugging me, when I was 9 i cought him slightly pulling my shirt off then tells me to show my chest, he 'examined' my private area to see if there were any infections, he again told me to show my chest because he was curious, my dad lives me very much, I don't think its sexual but it appears to be (??) he gets angry when my mum speaks about lying on the same bed but he gets angry too.. (They're divorced) but he wasn't forceful at all! He didn't force me to show my chest but he did when he examined my area, I was young then and my mum took me to the doctors once when I was much much younger to examine my area too..
Please help me! I've delt with so much.. But to make things worse I think my cousin is upto something to, my dad says he is clearly interested in me and told me to be far from him, my cousin told me I looked pretty, but to be honest I'm really ugly in real life (well. That's how I see myself :P) so it all confuses me how they like me..? I'm looking for thoroughly detailed answers on what I should do, I really can't help all this heating tension.(I know, my English is really bad..)
| You are over reacting | 6 | |
| normal things boys go through growing up | 9 | |
| You should be a little worried | 5 | |
| You should be cautious | 25 | |
| You should confront your dad | 12 | |
| Other (comment) | 8 |