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I'm a 23 year old guy , who sometimes, when it comes to HATING/DISLIKING someone/s (something urges me to kiss them or to become so close to them mentally not in reality ) but I don't like them , and when I LOVE someone (Something mentally not in reality urges me to kick them or hit them or be far away from them ) even though I do like them, weird. Is it normal?
you are what we like to call a rapist.
nah im just kidding. get into martial arts or crime fighting. women are for loving guys are for fighting.
American women nowadays can't settle for mediocrity even though that is exactly what they are. They all go after the same kinds of men. They won't approach a guy like you if you're always overshadowed by the tall, dark and handsome type. I would say a dating site might be best. Go into it realistically and keep an open mind. You can try Craigslist if you want some sexual experience. I'm sure there are plenty of women on there who would take your virginity. You never know until you try.
Also, I've found through learning Chinese and talking to girls through QQ, that women in China find American guys attractive (I'm not that good looking either). If you're stable and want a long term relationship, they tend to be family oriented and would love a shot at U.S. citizenship. And they all want to learn English. I have a girlfriend here, otherwise I would be in China at the drop of a hat.
i think you dont know how to show love so you fell like kicking some1 to tell em you love em, you know no other way to love
i don't really understand your question but I'ma give it my best shot! when i was younger, 15-16, i used to hate this girl, yet have a huge crush on her at the same time, she felt the same and one day i just came out with it and she responded by telling me she also felt this way, which to be honest was the last thing my acne covered teenage face expected, we started going out and it was really good, very physical if you get my drift.
i think you have severe commitment issues. You obviously have issues with trust and a low sense of self worth. With a subconscious effort to "Keep enemies closer" . Your instinctive reaction to people you may like is to push them away? if you don't form a relationship or friendship with these people you save yourself the possible loss of it in the future. By putting those you dislike close to you, you know these relationships will fail, you are trying to prove to yourself that no friendship/relationship will be successful to you..... maybe you have never had a meaningful relationship in your life. This is common for people who have love for their parents, yet never feel it was reciprocated... or something along those lines.... also you may be having identity issues( like someone said before, maybe you are confused about your sexuality/ there is something you dislike about yourself and you can't come to terms with it)? Talk to a doctor for impartial advice...