Update: is it normal to be 20 and never been kissed?

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Hey everyone. This is an update to an earlier post that I had submitted. Follow this link to read it: http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-be-20-and-never-been-kis-27981/. Read it yet? Commented? Bashed me yet? Lol just kidding.

Here's the update: I am 20 and have been officially kissed! It was awesome, and thanks to the people who have given me supportive comments. Everyone else can suck a pickle (Youtube.com - Asathecomic). Anyways, yeah, I was kissed by an extremely hot guy who makes me feel special and loved. So here's my new question, is it weird to want to take it slow? With this guy, I know I could give him my heart, but we've only known each other for a short while. My mind says relax, but my heart...well I've been trying to ignore my heart, but everytime I'm with him, my heart leaps. Even when we talk on the phone, I want to be with him. So, is it normal? Should I take it slow so that I can protect myself from being hurt? Am I being stupid for being cautious? Is it normal to have a good thing and be scared to death to accept it? You be the judge.

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  • Chill_Pill
    14 years ago

    Congratulations!!! I'm so happy for you! And yes I think it's normal to want to take things slow, especially since this is new to you. Be cautious but love freely. Don't be intimidated and love generously. And please, don't ask us when you decide to give up your virginity if it's okay. Your heart is your decision maker. Know that you will hurt sometimes, that's how you grow, but being afraid of it will never give you the freedom you need in a realtionship. Abandon all Fear! Good Luck!

    ~Peace~

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  • russellnb
    13 years ago

    I think it is wonderful to take things slow and not need to be "like everyone else". Mainly because everyone else is not like everyone else, and everyone else is not correct or happy. Have a wonderful life.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Congrats! :) And yes, taking things slow is best... though your heart will tell you. Good luck!

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    That's terrific!

    I think ChillPill put it excellently - good advice.

    Why hold back? Jump right in and enjoy everything about it! You could get hurt, but you could also get hurt by taking it slow - it's never a sure thing. Sit back and enjoy the ride!

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