Unsure, attractive, self-image, awkward, self-loathing

Alright so a couple years ago I dated what is now probably the best looking girl in my grade. At that point though, she was considered definitely hot, but no big deal really. Anyways, she seeked me out and basically clued me on to that she liked me. Later I heard from some other kids that her and her friends had decided I was the one of the best looking guys in our grade. Okay so this is a couple years later now and I probably haven't spoken to this girl in 4 months. The past year I fell into this depression for about 3 months were I lost the majority of my friends. I then came out of that and became decently popular at school again. However, I haven't had any luck with any girls whatsoever since then. All my friends have gotten with girls and stuff, except me. Many of them i see as worse looking then me, but with louder personalities because i'm more of a quiet kid. So i was just wondering - if I was considered good looking about 2 years ago, am i probably still good looking? Is it normal to wonder?

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  • so_damn_unpretty

    no, last summer you fell out of an ugly tree. sorry.

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  • Lies

    Same thing happend to me and I ask myself this everyday

    Depression can you make you ugly

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  • "If I was good looking two years ago, am I still?"

    Internal qualities are infinitely greater than external ones like looks but to answer your question: Yes, you're still attractive.

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  • Flyfoot56

    Attention! You are no longer attractive. Stay inside and close the blinds. Only your mom and your dog can love you now.

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  • Uzzie101

    Of course, unless you smashed your face in.

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  • pris1812:

    Talk to your husband. Let him know that you need his affection and that it isn't always about him. Relationships are about sacrifice.

    Don't give up just because your marriage isn't perfect. None are.

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  • Yeah, probably.

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