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I'm an unemployed young man who is happy he is jobless and will be the end of his bloodline! No nagging wife or kids for me! Is it normal that I don't want to work myself into an early grave for an ungrateful wife or kids and don't care about slaving away at a company that will fire me anyway for being too normal for my own good? Because of this, I am normal huh?
You have a misconception of what life is all about. If you expect the worst - the worst will happen.
Being in love with a woman who is right for you is actually a very happy experience and having a job you love, that you feel you make a difference to the world through your contribution is also like no other feeling in the world. We all have out path to walk and if yours is to slowly waste away until you die it is very sad but if that's what you feel has to be done, if that's the experience that was mapped out for you then that is normal to you. But I guess you even asking if it is may not feel that it is normal for you, or you would not say anything at all.
If you did want things to change the best thing would be to step outside of your situation and get a new perspective. Think about what you really like doing/interested in and follow your interest. It may lead to training and career and you would meet like minded people, men and women, who will be your friends and maybe even surprise yourself and meet you soulmate and be happy.
all the best!
I think you just described me. I never want to get married. I never want to have kids. I want to work as little as possible.
I just want to spend my life doing hobbies.
You and I aren't the slightest bit lazy. We're just smart enough to know that life shouldn't be wasted working for someone else. :)
If you're happy about the situation, that's great, I guess. Some people require less to be happy but if you are seriously happy you're definitely an outlier. To be a non-contributor to society and end up lonely is some serious shit so I'm not sure how sustainable it is. Maybe you're financially set for life and have a great drug connect, in which case congrats for enjoying a life where you accomplish nothing.
what a waste of oxygen you turned out to be, i dont wanna work my ass off, but i do, i dont wanna be away from my baby girl, but i do, i hate leaving my wife to go to work, but i do, im not tryin to change the world or be remembered for eternity or keep my bloodline going to carry on my name as if it means anything more then a label to be identified as, i do it to see my baby smile to provide a good life for her. if you dont feel the need to do anything with your life thats cool, its your life i wont tell you how to live, but your going to be miserable as fuck when you realized your mistake as you wasted your life away thinkin you were the smart guy who figured it all out
Dude your not serious.. lol Who doesn't want to be loved by someone.. you are just a sad young man.. but one day your gonna long for that love you seem to dislike right now... really grow up and maybe then you will gain some understanding.
I am as serious as a heart attack. Why would I care? If they love me they do if they don't they don't. That simple! YOu can't force someone to love you. And trust me, being sort of a misanthrope makes my life very easy. In fact, I'd rather the world held me in contempt then be loved by them just as I'd rather be hated for who I am then loved for who I'm not. I'm sad? Cool. Well, you aren't the first one to say that and probably won't be the last.
No, you're lazy. Who supports you? Your parents? Where do you feel this sense of entitlement? Grow up.