Understanding what i feel

There are times on and off as to where i feel as if no one likes me or cares. I know im not depressed because i dont feel like this all the time. people say i am one of the nicest people they have ever known or met, which makes me feel great because they appreciate it so much. But just BEING nice doesnt cut it. I want people to like me and think im nice but i also want them to respect me. Sometimes i feel like no one wants to hang out or be w/ me when no one ever calls me. I dont want to feel like a basketcase to anyone but im afraid thats why i feel like no one cares about me. I want to feel normal and just lead a normal life where i dont have to worry about if anyone likes me, just trust that people like me for who i am. I dont know what else i can do. Can anyone tell me what i can do or what i need to do to get rid of this feeling. Are there any pills for this?

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  • Please understnad that if everyone likes you then you are not truly you to get all that attention. Honestly, I would rather just have like two good friends who truly know me as well as I know them than a phonebook full of people I know of but do not really know.

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  • RockerChic

    Yes it's normal, it's music, i download it all the time.

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  • miranda122

    i feel your pain see i feelthe same way and sure being nice is all fun and games but there are some people hun you just can not be nice too. just tell them to fuck off or someting[you dont have to cuss] but if they are treating you wrong they frind new friends..

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  • best advice is to see a doctor.

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  • richardoneesan

    I know how it feels to be unwanted and alone as well. Hell, it's been like that my entire life. Even though I'm 20, there have been countless times that I wish that I were dead, and without the help and intervention from my friends, I'd be dead. Every day I try to live my life to the fullest, and make sure that when I go to bed, I'm happy. Yea, life is gonna get you down, but you can't let it get the best of you. Going back to what Ms 'Tober and lil18angel have said, just be yourself. Yea, nice people get treated like shit, and it isn't fair, but if you just stay yourself, good things will come. I hope that I was able to help you, and to all the people who were put down and made feel like shit in their lives, and are currently reading this comment, don't let them push you around. If you push back, they'll leave you alone.

    [email protected]

    If you need any more advice, feel free to contact me. Just make sure that you provide a good subject line so that i don't think it's like, spam or anything.

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  • iwondered

    I totally understand you. I use to feel the same way, but don't worry weather people like you or not. Friends like you for who you are. I use to feel the same exact way when I was in middle school but I got over it. If people don't want to be my friend then whatever people like you for who you are not for who you call or who you know or who your friends with. :)

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  • gono666

    but going back to the story, I think a lot of people dont like me either and I doesn't affect me, I know people that do like me and that's good enough because I know they are truly honest friends, its better to be hated for what you are then to be loved for what you are not.

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  • lil18angel

    My advice is as follows:

    1. Don't listen to the assholes Like HomerS who replied to you. They need to get a life.

    2. really think about the comments that quadmaster and Ms October left you. They seem like sweet people and were gave you great advice.

    3. I know exactly where your coming from. All throughout highschool,Everyone told me how sweet and nice and caring I was. But there were a lot of times when I was taken advantage of because of that. and despite how nice I was, there were a lot of times I felt lonely and like no one liked or cared about me. I still feel that way now that I am a freshman in college. the important thing to remember is that it doesn't matter if other people like you, as long as you like yourself. Always be true to yourself and be confident in who you are. Never be afraid to be yourself. As long as you true to yourself and be yourself, you will always have people by your side who will love you know matter what and always be there for you. Even if sometimes it seems like you don't. and never stop being nice, this world needs more nice people like you. I truly know how you feel and if you ever want to talk, just email me at [email protected]

    take care

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  • EccentricWeird

    Darjeeling tea really isn't that bad!

    Oh, and about your problems... cyanide, honey.

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  • voiceexpress

    My username means that i express things through my voice (obviously), im a singer, and i express things through song. And just so you know, i am not a depressing person, all of us just go through phases of where we're not happy or we're just not having a good day. Im going through one of those phases right now, so it'll pass in time.

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  • SUCKIT

    homerS porchies dont talk about their feelings, noo shes clearly some sort of latino,
    probably morbidly obese aswell

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    • gono666

      I think you cannot tell by a post what race a person is or there physical appearance, I think you have some racist and confidence issues.

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  • be yourself and feel good For being yourself.

    A person can't have Everyone like them, I mean, wouldn't it be worse to be best buds with a cretin like Homer?

    Let the real you shine through, you might be surprised.

    Tobra

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  • Quadmaster

    Just be yourself and don't worry about what other people think! You sound like a very nice person and believe me they will "respect" you for who you are if you continue to be the way you are. Don't ever take what other people think to seriously because they have their own problems and half of them just wish they could be just like you!

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  • No there are no pills for that some people will like you or not some will be close and some wont its just a part of life dont worry about it

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    • voiceexpress

      Yeah i think i just overreacted, thanks.

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