Under what circumstances does one become out of league ?

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Well I'm wondering when does someone officially become out of your league ? What factors determine this or is it purely due from the perspective of having low self esteem. For example-

My profile-

Note- This is what sums me up but this isn't an actual dating profile, just provided for is it normal people to get an idea about me & where I could improve in my life to get dates :)

21F
Work- Soft landscaping & lawns
Financial situation- Average but often broke
Appearance- Slim but fit build, quite attractive
Personality- Quirky but still mature, loves to make people laugh. Cracks a lot of lame jokes. Caring, honest, reliable and loyal
Hobbies- Friends, Exploring new places, Reptiles,animals

Does this sound lame or uninteresting?
I feel that Im lacking something & perhaps people would find me a boring person to date ?

How popular they are or aren't 1
Interests/hobbies 1
Other/s I'll comment :) 2
Achievements/accomplishments 0
All of the above 4
Their job 0
Their demeanor/personna 7
Their financial situation 3
The way they look 5
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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with you.

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  • dirtybirdy
    7 years ago

    You sound similar to me which means you're awesome and then some.

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  • tittle
    7 years ago

    Probably different for girls and guys - but your "profile" sounds awesome. Sound like you'd be a lot of fun to be around.
    People just are, there's good ones, bad ones, dickheads, and totally awesome ones - I think it's cuntish to rate people on a linear scale. I don't mean that personally - like, it's a fair enough question.

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  • you_go_glen_coco
    7 years ago

    You are out of my league

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    when you determine you are not good enough, that is what decides you aren't good enough.
    Your own confidence in yourself is about 75-85% of your attractiveness. So depending on how you view and carry yourself can make all the difference.

    By the way, you sound awesome by your profile.

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  • fluffy1uv
    7 years ago

    There are no leagues. Leagues are a social construct, based on real things but defined based on mutual agreement between people in a certain field. Social constructs like this however are mutually agreed upon only by people who look at (or assess using any of those things above) two individuals and deem them to be either in or out of each others' league. Furthermore the assessment made by those individuals is based on things you can't actually quantify. Everyone has different tastes so the assessments would vary considerably. These two reasons are why there are no leagues, it is not a valid construct.

    As far as my personal experience goes, I've always had people tell me i was way out of my partner's league, in every instance, and i have always hated it. They are basically insulting my taste and my partner's appearance.

    Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

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  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    just confidence. just be really confident. that's literally the only thing, and if you can't be then fake it.

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