Twisting wrists, iin?

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Yesterday, I got in a fight with a relative of mine... I was angry at her for intruding in my space. I have paranoia and she just made it worse.... Anyway, at some point I told her to get out of the room I was in. I kept telling her and then she said something so, I added "please".
I was trying to comb my hair and then she started moving quickly in front of me. I was holding my comb above me in one hand and then the next thing I knew, she violently grabbed my wrist. Then, she grabbed the other one and kept violently twisting and shaking them. The comb had fallen and I had started to cry. It really hurt and she wouldn't stop. I have connectivity problems and by now she should know that, but she didn't stop. There was a twisted glee on her face as she held me against the chair I was sitting on.

Another, relative told her that she shouldn't do that, but she insisted.... Then, something happened and she made my protesting relative leave the room. Then, when they came back, my relative had also turned on me! I couldn't stop crying. I didn't understand it and I was in allot of pain. Then money was brought up. Something about subtracting money and the first relative said that something was wrong with me because I got confused over subtracting money. I tried to explain that I have a hard time with math and then she said I was lying. I kept crying and then she started to laugh at me. The other relative got angry at her and said that she should do that. Then, she said that i was funny and that I was a weakling. We both flipped out at her and I asked what the F**k was wrong with her. Some other things happened that I can't really remember. There was something about "threats". The rest of the day, I was scared of her.

Is this normal? She has been abusive before.... but I've never been able to tell anyone. I'm still scared..... She's stronger and larger than me and she knows that I can't fight back.... I don't know what to do and I'm scared that she might try to do it again... Please help!

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  • TheOldScum
    11 years ago

    Head butt her in the face.

    Other then that kid, all I can tell you is to hang in there. You will move out and life will get better. I promise, but if you feel your life is in danger, I would tell you to get out know, things can be replaced. Try to stay at a friends. If not there are places you can go, they may not be the best of the cleanest but they may be safer.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The only thing I can say is that I sympathize.

    And, I guess, how desperate are you to get away from them? Ever heard desperate times call for desperate measures? There's probably something you can do that you refused to consider because you weren’t desperate enough yet.

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    • Avant-Garde
      12 years ago

      You're right in sense. All the times that have been desperate, I'll dream about telling someone, but when it comes down to it I'm nothing but a coward. I was in europe and very ill. I told only one person what was going on, but I swore her to secrecy...

      As much as I would like to, I never do. I feel like the best thing to do is to wait, but waiting is a very hard thing to do... This site is really the only format where I've been able to share my issues, with little to no fears of repercussions....

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    If she's being abusive call CPS.

    If you're old enough to move out you might want to consider it as an option.

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    • Avant-Garde
      12 years ago

      I can't call them and she's been verbally/emotionally abusive all of my life.

      I'm not in college, but at the age I am, I could've gone. However, I'm doing an art college through the mail that I must finish:/

      I would love to move out but I can't and when I go to college, I want to go far away from them and never come back.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        Well there is another option....

        join the military.

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        • Avant-Garde
          12 years ago

          That's a good idea, but I have too many health problems and fears to do it.

          I am supposed to go to canada in a few years for "farming skills" and what not.

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    bigger, hmmmm, probably means she is fat, do sick some black guys on her then, they love big bootays

    But really, wtf your relative seems really sadictive, you need to tell the rest of the family about this, so they can help mediate

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    • Avant-Garde
      12 years ago

      She's rather old. "Big" as in fat and strong....

      She once told me, with a smile in my face, that she would like nothing more than to see me suffer.... That was a few years ago. The rest of my family, on her side, is just as worst. They've helped to contribute allot of verbal and emotional abuse. I'm not close with my family, I don't like them....

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