Turned off because she wants to work in hooters

I was really interested in this girl, and the feeling was mutual, but when I found out she wanted to work in Hooters it hit me like a sack of bricks. Her justification was that it pays well.
Note, I didn't make the decision of where she's going to work for her, I made the decision to back out and lose interest in her. Even though it isn't easy. I don't know what I would've done if we were in a relationship.
I'm not lookling for flings or one night stands, and in a serious relationship I wouldn't want to put up with the thought that men are ogling her on a daily basis.
I know it's normal to have my own personal opinion on this, but to what extent is it shared by the folk of IIN? Your thoughts? Opinions?

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Based on 38 votes (28 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    You made The decision to lose interest in her?

    How did you gain this power and where can i get it? You could be rich with this

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    • Yes, let me rephrase. I made the decision to try to lose interest in her.

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  • iEatZombies_

    I'm not seeing the problem everyone else is seeing. You don't want to date someone who feels comfortable in that work environment. You're doing the right thing, I don't find it insecure.
    You're a guy, you know how guys can be and you don't know why a girl would willingly put herself in that situation. You have all the right in the world to date somebody who's more compatible for you.
    People love throwing the word insecure around. It gets to a point where that word loses it's value. It's a shame, really. Insecure isn't some kind of curse word.. but that's a rant for another day.

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  • Everyone draws their lines and limits somewhere. If this is something that bothers you that's ok. .

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  • Darkoil

    What's it like being so insecure and pathetic you can't handle other men looking at your girl?

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    • How do you define 'insecure'?

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      • Darkoil

        I'm not a fucking dictionary.

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      • abigdick

        You just defined it above. Great comments by several. If you have a problem with her working at Hooters, you better fine a girl who likes being kept at home 24/7.

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        • If you think the only alternative to a girl who wants to be exposed and make a sex object of herself is a girl who allows a man to totally control her, then you are very wrong indeed.

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          • abigdick

            A girl is exposed at a strip club. Many confident men like to show off their ladies in different ways. I am one of them. If a guy or men like to look at my wife, I take it as a compliment.

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    • Short4Words

      It's not like she's fucking every dude in hooters. They're all drunk idiots making asses of themselves. Probably helps his case more than anything.

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  • JD777

    Hey, if it is going to bother you, this is the time to cool off the relationship. She would be free to find a guy who wouldn't be bothered by it and you can find someone else.

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  • noid

    Good for you, I'm a girl but I agree with you OP.

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  • thegypsysailor

    OMG, a guy that won't date a Hooters girl!
    Sorry dude, but it's time to admit that you are gay. Gay as a three dollar bill!
    It is your right to not date a woman because of where she works.
    I think she's better off not dating a small minded cretin like you. Good riddance.

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    • regisphilbin

      would he be gay if he didn't want to date a porn star too? you got to draw the line somewhere, and this guy realizes she is a whore and stays away which is the wise decision to make in this situation.

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      • thegypsysailor

        Absolutely!
        What makes you think a waitress is a whore? I've known plenty of Hooters girls and not one was a whore. Most were very nice girls putting themselves through college on their own, not taking government handouts or ending up with a huge college debt. I'd call them smart girls, not whores. But I guess that's your definition of a whore?
        As for dating a porn star, it would take a pretty boring guy not to want to pick up a few tips from someone who is very experienced at sex.
        I just don't understand this holier than thou attitude some guys have to a woman who is more experienced in the sack than they are. Perhaps they just aren't very secure in their masculinity.

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    • LadyEliza

      You've never dated a girl, and it's not likely you will, so you're not one to talk.
      He said that he wants a solid, dependable relationship, not just a fling with some hot chick.

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      • Brownblowout

        Don't listen to that sailor dude. He's with a girl young enough to be his granddaughter

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      • thegypsysailor

        LOL.
        Hey, dear Liza, dear Liza, dear Liza dumbass girl.
        If you believe "You've never dated a girl, and it's not likely you will" then I've got a lovely bridge I can sell you, CHEAP! It's a fantastic deal and just just the thing for a dumbass like you. Did I say it was cheap?
        And a solid, dependable relationship with a Hooters girl is impossible because? Really, I want to hear your answer; I need another good laugh tonight.
        By the way, what do YOU do for a living?

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  • Nokiot9

    What's wrong with hooters? It's not a strip club. Have you ever even been there? I find that usually people with a ridiculous bias toward hooters haven't ever even eaten there before. I bet she wears skimpier clothes when she goes out on the weekend and doesn't get paid. So, would you rather that guys gawk at her for free? Or she gets paid for her work as well as being beautiful? Hooters has such an undeserved stigma attached to it like it's a sex den or something. It's so dumb.

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  • LadyEliza

    I think you made a smart choice to leave that relationship. Just find another girl (with a normal job).
    All of these internet losers are telling you you're an idiot, but remember, the closest they've ever come to girls is watching porn by themselves in their rooms. Any advice they give you is NOT from experience.

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  • Twickers

    Whatever floats your boat. If that bothers you, then so be it. However, it's a JOB. I'd be more turned off by a partner who had no desire to get a job in the first place.

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  • Riddler

    I could see why someone would work there, I had someone recently say they were willing to try but they didn't want to since they found it demeaning. I think in this economy any job is a job so you would take what you could get.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Even as a patron, I'd get laughed right outta there.

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  • green_boogers

    If you turned down a Hooters girl, you are conflicted to the core. Wear a metal jock to punish yourself for getting erections, take a chastity class at your local church, sleep with a teddy bear and suck your thumb as you fall asleep.

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  • theseeker

    A hooters girl wouldn't turn me off. It's not like she's a hooker, or she's messing around with other dudes.

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  • Aries

    are you Canadian by any chance? I will date her while she works at hooters :D it's just a job and just because the guys want her , it doesn't mean she is going to give herself to them .

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