Trying too hard usually has the opposite effect ! iin?

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Sometimes I try & try and try and the more I try the worse it gets or nothing happens at all so I give up IIN?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Maybe it's not meant to be.

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  • Eat.My.Fuck
    8 years ago

    This is a fascinating phenomenon. I've noticed this myself. The more you want something the harder it gets to attain it. The best way to go about getting something is to have a confident attitude and a nonchalant demeanor.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    There is no try. There is only do or do not.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Pretty damn normal, yes. Except for the giving up part.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Nah, sometimes giving up is the smart thing to do, as in accepting the things you can't change

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Rather than give up, might I suggest finding another approach to achieving the desired effect?

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          Yeah, sometimes that works but sometimes the desired effect isn't attainable, especially if it's reliant on someone else changing

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