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It turns me on when guys are violent and misogynistic and when they hate women so I try to provoke my boyfriend into hitting me and being abusive towards me. I like a relationship with some danger and violence and I fantasise about being with a guy who is a violent criminal. How can I get my boyfriend to act like this with me? I want him to be really violent.
Well, first off I want to tell you that you sound hella fucked up in yo head.
It's completely uncool, and inappropriate to try to manipulate another person into doing what you want them to do without them being aware. The proper thing for you to do is to talk to your boyfriend, and tell him about your feelings. If he is interested in this stuff then count yourself lucky. However, if your partner is not interested then you need to respect his feelings, and accept that he's not going to be into it. It's very selfish, and unloving to try to manipulate people, especially a person you're supposed to love.
You want to role-play that he is a physically abusive misogynistic violent criminal and he doesn’t. So respect his boundaries.
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There has to be a better way to spice up the relationship than bashing your skull in, surely.
To me it sounds like a submissive bdsm desire. Try do some research into that.
It's pretty normal to be into degradation at least I think but abuse is a real serious issue. You're fucked if you WANT to be abused.
Clearly something is wrong. It's one to want to be dominated especially in bed but it's a another thing if you want to be casually abused and insulted (non-sexually) daily. You should also not force your BF to abuse you as he might be the grand majority and respect women
He's not right for you.
Go date a local from Hawaii.
As long as you are ok with a small dick.
They are just what you are looking for.
Hmm.... Have you tried just asking him? Or y'know...not trying to get him to abuse you?
u will regret this one day and you ll just need someone that is so kind and caring. and stop watching movies .real life is never like a movie
You should find a guy who's violent to other people so you can participate in the violent crime rather than be the victim of it.