Trying to be positive as i can be

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Hi there,I really used your help right now.
So here its begin,when I was in the elementary school,I used to be bullied,so I kept quiet all the time because of the embarrassment.But the thing is I don't like being like that,I love to be sociable with people.So when I enter a new life in college,i change my mind and a set a new positively in myself to approach anyone who wants to be my friend.Luckily i have got a numbers of friend,but it was so sad they did not approach to me first.It had always been me.This makes me thing,if they do want to friend with me or just being burden to be friend with me.What should I do now?

should i stay positive and approach them first 2
just smile to everyone 1
just be an introvert like i used to be 2
should i just ignore them and let them approach me first 0
just approach people that i want to approach at that particular moment 10
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  • FeralDefiance
    7 years ago

    It sounds to me like you got used to the idea of being "the bullied kid," and that made your self-confidence drop. You're worrying way too much about it. If you're naturally social, then be social. If you're making friends, it doesn't matter who approached whom first.

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    • AINYRFAV
      7 years ago

      thanks for the advise.mean a lot to me

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