Trouble asking out a girl.

I have been friends with this girl for a long time but I don't know how too ask her out because I dont want to hurt our friendship as well, Is this normal?

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Based on 40 votes (36 yes)
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  • wreckd

    You could always use the famous...:

    YOU: You wanna go out sometime?

    HER: No.

    YOU: Me neither.

    If it goes bad, you seem young, and you two could have it as a funny moment to look back on.

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    • TheIronCheffOfPoundingVaj

      All I know is. Whoever invented the girl saying 'play hard to get' must effing die!!! :/

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    • dalmationUntoyourSoul

      i'm totally gonna try that one. thank you.

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  • CountryRoads

    It's not a big deal. Don't miss your chance.

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  • Ms.Caffinated

    I was in the same boat :D it's difficult aint it? lol Try gauging her reaction, like "BlahBlah is SO convinced you like me!" If she acts strange 'face sobers, stalling, eye's widen' She likes you. Do this somewhere dark, She will likely let her guard down and not hide her facial expressions, She might think you don't notice. then be like, "DO you like me?" Again, if she looks like she just had a heart attack, quickly reply, "because I like you.." slowly walk up to her and smile. Chances are she will still be to shocked lol -if it feels right, just kiss her, Thats how MY ex got me lmao. It's all about understanding body language...If she rejects the idea honestly from the begining, pass it off as a joke. NO feelings hurt.

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  • nafaza

    Dont be worried. Do ask her out, and at some moment explain her your feelings. I did that with a friend and somehow we came closer (friendly). But it was a little bit akward the first one two weeks...

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  • smexybeast

    try flirtin wi her, if she joinz in ask her if not just say u were messin wi her

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  • TriggerHappyPanda

    If you're texting her, just be like "hey wanna go out sometime?" and if she says no, just be like "sorry my friend took my phone and said that"

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