Trashy women more acceptable iin?

Why is it that when a guy says he like a woman with class, his male friends look at him like he some sort of idiot? Why is it that when a woman has class and she carries herself like a dignified young and beautiful lady she's considered boring, and unattractive?

But then you see whores like Miley Cyrus twerking and shaking their ass all over everyone and their grandma, and its considered sexy and attractive and every guy wants a "piece of THAT"

It pisses me off to no end to know that trash
Is more acceptable than class.

Would you want to be her first? Or her hundredth?

I could go on for days about this but I'm not. Why are nasty women more acceptable in society? It makes me furious.

I'm a guy by the way.

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  • amaterasu

    So many objections here...

    First of all, "class" and "intercourse frequency" are different things. A classy woman can be sexually active and a trashy woman can be a virgin. No one loses dignity just by having sex.

    The thing with "classy" is that when we hear that word, most think "pretentious bitter bitch". And it is mostly like that. If a woman is truly classy, no one would go out of the way to mention it, they will just say that she is cool or something. Having class is about being discrete as well.

    No guy will ever say that the girl that he is dating is "trashy". They will usually say that they girl is "fun" or something. I don't know.

    To be honest, only douchebags reject girls for being "classy". Many of my friends like dating girls that "respect themselves".

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    • This was kind of posted out of anger and confusion :(

      But you make perfect sense.

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  • ...To this day I have not seen anyone say they want a piece of Miley Cyrus, so I have no idea what you are talking about.

    When it comes down to it, there are two types of women that guys want to have sex with, the sexy and the easy. Personally, I think there are more "easy" than genuine "sexy" ones nowadays, and I definitely think a lot of women do not understand the difference between getting sex due to being easy and getting sex due to being sexy.

    Just because a guy might want to have sex with someone does not mean they want anything more from them.

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    • I might not want it, but I'd take it if offered.

      There aren't two types, "sexy" being totally different in meaning to everyone makes that a silly notion.

      So there certainly aren't two different ways in which they got sex, some find trashy and easy to actually be sexy, raping your logic on that one.

      When you have sex more you'll begin to lessen on the "woman condescension" and realise that they are just like guys. They don't act easy and have sex alot because they think they're sexy. They do it because they have a high sex drive and need alot of sex, just like me, a male.

      Sexy I'm not thinking I'm sexy because I'm easy, I'm thinking I wanna fuck everything.

      Your black and white virgin talk is filth unto thy ears.

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    • EccentricWeird

      You're more full of shit than a Christmas goose. Gimme the sluts!

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    • anti-hero

      I want a piece of Miley Cyrus.

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  • loopoo

    Maybe they know the trashy girl will 'shag' them, whereas the classy girl would probably take more work to get into bed. Easier?

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  • dirtybirdy

    I'm a scavenger so I'm pretty trashy.

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  • moomus

    I have no idea, but I agree with you. As far as the media goes, sex sells. And it seems to me a lot of men notice women who act like that. If I go out with my friends, the women who get attention seem to be the ones whoring it up.

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    • disthing

      Yeah, but that behaviour signals only that those women are open for 'business', up for sex, nothing else. Success at getting banged on a night out doesn't translate to success in love - that behaviour is unlikely to result in a long-term, loving relationship is it?

      So those men who are attracted by that behaviour are similarly only looking for one thing. Men who are looking for more are unlikely to approach a girl acting like that.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Classy girls put out too, but not to some loser who can't converse intelligently, dresses like a slob and looks at girls as objects instead of people.If you want a classy girl, step up your game guys.
    I wouldn't have done that Cyrus chick when I was working in the music industry if she'd been the last woman on earth and we didn't have aids or herpes in those days. She's just plain UGLY!

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    • Twickers

      My sentiments precisely.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Date the slut, marry the girl next door.

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  • dom180

    Why not? Your frustration seems to be born more from protecting "classy" women than it is attacking "trashy" women, but why do you feel the need to do either? And what makes you think people find Miley Cyrus attractive? And what makes you think "classy" girls aren't considered attractive? And what makes you think there's something wrong with "trashy" girls being considered attractive... is it just because you don't agree?

    This post has confusled me.

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      I don't think OP means Cyrus. I think he means whores in general and think miley is a big slut so used her. I think op is trying to say a guy will fuck a slut apposed to a good girl who does not give her virginity to just ANY guy in the world. That people probobly make fun of him for dating a good girl apposed to a whore. I think he probobly use someone he/she knew was very recognizable.

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      • dom180

        That doesn't actually take anything away from my point, though. My point was that there's nothing wrong with not taking sex seriously, and there's nothing wrong with finding such a person attractive.

        I don't think I've ever seen anyone get made fun of for dating a "good girl". In my experience a guy is much more likely to be made fun of if he's dating a promiscuous girl, actually.

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        • RomeoDeMontague

          I just thought I point this out since you all seem to be focusing on the fact he said Miley. Your reactions were all "ewwww"! You all seem to be saying what OP says is false since Miley is not sexy. Which is in fact also a matter of opinion. So there might be others who find her attractive. Though I really don't think was the point of the story.

          Also just because you have never seen it does not mean its false. You should expand your view beyond your small scope of vision. If its not happening in Europe it might happen in the Us, and if its not is Canada is might be happening in mexico. We are all different and depending where we are things might work differently.

          Some places don't shake hands. Some places use chopsticks and not forks. However from the idea of "Fucking a virgin" I always heard I would not think this was the case generally. Unless maybe they are saying he is "Whipped" and by not fucking his girlfriend he has given dominance to her and is not a real man. Which has also happened.

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          • dom180

            I only mentioned Miley Cyrus one time, so it was hardly the sole thing I was focussing on. I don't think I gave the disgusted impression you seem to be saying I gave. What made you think I felt disgusted?

            The bit about a guy being called "whipped" if he's not having sex with his girlfriend is true. Fair enough. But I don't think it has much bearing on the original point.

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      • disthing

        Not disagreeing with anything you said, just wanted to point out that the word you mean to use is 'opposed', not apposed (although apposed is a word).

        "for dating a good girl *as opposed to a whore"

        "a guy will fuck a slut *as opposed to a good girl"

        And 'probably', not 'probobly', although 'probobly' is more fun to pronounce :P

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        • RomeoDeMontague

          Oh sorry. =(

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          • disthing

            I was just letting you know, no need to apologise.

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      • That was everything I was going to say.

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  • SuperBenzid

    The bigger question is why do you have so much shame towards sex?

    Also why do you feel you are in the position to judge these women based on what they wear or things they do in entertainment? What makes you so great that you feel you know the moral standard women should follow and can judge which woman are "trash" and which have class?

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Maybe because they are harder to obtain as they set their standards high.

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  • All guys love a slut.
    But they marry a 'good girl'.
    It's just bad when that overlaps.

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  • curiouskate101

    Amen!! I try so hard well to be the girl you described. I will not changed I know one day the right guy will appreciate it. Guys want easy sex. Thats why. Most guys arnt looking to settle down till a certain age

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  • Caryopteris

    I think I know what a "hung" is, and hungs have feelings too! lol.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    I have never been more turned off by any woman in my life, idk what world you live in, and as hard for me to believe, im sure some people actually likes miley cyrus euugghh.

    So you cant just generalize and think "every guy" likes trashy. LMFAO by miley? fuking gross.

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  • bemah

    I'd say it's because guys need to feel like they're classy and respectable etc in a relationship (or hookup)

    ... and when they're not (which is the case with most guys these days), they're intimidated by woman of a higher level, and so they have to lower their standards in order to feel better about themselves.

    In other words, Men have huge egos, they need someone to remind them that they are 'the man.' Who better to do that when a guy can't measure up than an idiot. Who else would be so easily impressed.

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      • disthing

        Sigh too.

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        • Ssssssiiiiiiiiiiiggggggggghhhhhh.......

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    It goes both ways.Women have sex with hungs and most of the times marry the average joe and men have sex with sluts as you call them and most of the times marry the ''normal'' ones.

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    • disthing

      What's a 'hung'?

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      • andiforoncedonthatehumans

        hunk* seems like the grammarn nazis got their chance for a downvote damn i was too late...

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        • disthing

          Ha

          *grammar

          Also spelling isn't grammar, so your typo doesn't count as a grammatical error. So you were a victim of the spelling nazis, of whom I am sometimes affiliated with, but I promise twas not me who gave you the finger (thumb).

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Anyone can get an easy chick. It takes more work to catch a classy one. They are too lazy to try for anything that matters. They simply want to fuck and they wonder why you are not just fucking either. They might not see the point in a sentimental relationship apposed to a nice piece of ass. Think of this like this. If there is a tree and each level is woman. The ones at the top are harder to get, harder to impress, and harder to fuck. Most is going to go to the one at the bottom since its much less work for them. The one guy who is willing to put in the effort will try to impress the glistening star at the top of the tree.

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  • Shimmers

    Fuck this shit anymore.
    Woman will rule the world.
    Fuck you guys, you can
    Have babies.
    THANKS.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Just live and let live. Classy girls aren't too bothered by this. Some of my friends are "trashy" as you say and I really don't care that they get tons of attention from guys wanting sex. I consider myself more on the classy side, and to be honest I'm glad I don't get all that attention. For a classy woman it's awkward because we are full of rejection. For the man who approaches the classy woman with sexual innuendos it's awkward because they are usually rejected. These are just two different worlds that one cannot compare. I may not get constant blatant sexual attention, but over the years I've gotten the sweetest love notes, subtle approaches, sparkling glances and true appreciation. I get all the attention I need in the areas I deserve it in. You need not feel that classy women are under-appreciated.

    Besides, when we do get over-sexualized attention, we tend to purposely ignore it, simply overlook it or not even notice it at all. My sexually open friends notice guys checking me out (or them) way more than I do because that is what they embrace, that is the game they like to play.

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    • Can you quack
      Can you quack like a duck when you suck
      Can you buck like a horse when we fuck
      Can you take every inch up your butt
      Can you shit on my chest for good luck

      Can you quack
      Can you quack like a duck when you suck
      Can you fart on my balls when we fuck
      Can you stick your whole tongue up my butt

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      • myboyfriendsbitch

        Are you hitting on me?

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        • I don't know..................

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          • myboyfriendsbitch

            You're scary looking.

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            • That's the paint huffing guy,

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  • GinnyWeasley

    I am not a fan of Miley but I am getting sick of everyone calling her a whore. So she twerks and whatever..so what? that doesnt make her a whore and even if she was its her sexuality and she can do what she wants, as any other woman or man.

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  • Anime7

    I don't really know what you're talking about. If anything it's the other way around, if a guy says he wants a trashy girl then he's looked at weirdly. There's nothing wrong with wanting to date someone who's easy. But when it comes to a woman who has class, generally, at least from what I've seen, they're not boring. In fact they can be fun people, similar to someone who's trashy, the only difference is that you have to coax out there fun. Woman who have class aren't really ugly, in my experience they're usually very attractive. How they carry themselves can be very attractive, it's like confidence; confidence can be sexy.

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  • youareaghost

    "You have thoroughly penetrated...this connection I had with this...object." The way I said this to my crush (about a squat rack) was pretty suggestive and flirty; definitely fun but I regret it now because I think it may have been too much. So much for not being trashy by accident.

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  • disthing

    "But then you see whores like Miley Cyrus twerking and shaking their ass all over everyone and their grandma, and its considered sexy and attractive and every guy wants a "piece of THAT"

    That's not true, is it? Because virtually everything written about that infamous incident has been negative. Because most people found it over-the-top, unattractive, disturbing even. I haven't heard one guy respond positively to her poor attempt at twerking all over Robin Thicke's clothed dick.

    I think you have a preference, and other people have a preference. Maybe the women you like aren't the women a lot of other men like or aren't what you think other men like. Either way, from my experience, most men don't want to be in a relationship with a porn star.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      Miley was road kill that night.

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      • gummy_jr

        Damn right about that. She got tanked I bet.

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  • Loeyyiiero

    Miley Cyrus is only somewhat attractive in the video for See you Again. Apart from that, she's nothing even remotely special.

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  • KnightTemplar

    Hahaha kiLl Miley Cyrus like that. Anyway, we wants sluts for now cause we not serious or we don't want to get married yet, a slut is easy sex! Get laid the next minute you meat her, wanting a classy chick who knows her worth when you ain't up for getting married is crazy! Cause it takes more time for her to let you sleep with her and as young people who just want sex that's a drag, so looking at sluts its a way of fun! But once your friends want to get married and shit! I'm sure none of them wants a Miley Cyrus as their wife hahaha! And she can't twerk! For the record (I'm 17 years)

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  • Roger_Maxson

    It's because trashy girls put out and most guys are douchebags that only care whether or not the girl puts out

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  • I have sex with mens asses.

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