Transman,semen dysphoria?

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Any of you other transmen out there have this problem? So last night I had sex with my girlfriend. Just when I was done orgasming I felt this feeling that made me feel sad. I thought and thought hard about how cis men can have sex but release semen in there partner's vagina. I thought about it, and realize I can never do that? I can never have the ability to be a biological father? Never get my girl pregnant. I've had girls in the past tell me it's a deal breaker if I can't make kids? I have that envy of my friend who's cis and is going to be a father. It's not his fault and he's a good friend. I just have this disgust in me when I see pregnant women. Thinking again, I could never be the one who has sperm to fertilize an egg. I would feel complete if this was possible. I have a prosthetic penis that I use to penetrate her. I want one where there's a way to shoot some kind of fluid that mimics semen. It's 2018 stuff like this should exist. :/

It would make me happy, but I would still have this feeling of dysphoria of not being able to produce semen. I'll never have a penis like a biological male. I guess these are the things I have to accept as a transguy. It'll get better I'm sure...it's just a pain sometimes.

Are these normal feelings for a transman? I think so?

You guys Comment if you like. I want to hear also from other transmen in there experience with this type of dysphoria. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has it.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    I just took a dump and it was very satisfying. I hope that you have enjoyable dumps as well.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    looks like nature won over science.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Nature is science, but if you're talking about science coming up with new shit and changing the natural Oder of things, then I guess you're right. :/

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    That's how life goes. Man impregnates woman, woman gets pregnant, man and woman have a child.
    You can't fight biology, so there is no reason to envy men, or be disgusted by women.

    There's always adoption, when it comes to children. Plenty of children are waiting to be adopted and have a place to call home.

    If you're just talking about having a white, semen-like fluid eject from your fake penis, that's just nonsense...
    Making an ejaculating prosthetic (a word I never thought I would even come up with) would be useless. It's not gonna do anything, would probably be too complicated and require too much maintenance and cleaning and be extremely awkward for the receiving partner.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      How would it be awkward? There are girls out there that wouldn't mine that. I have a girlfriend soon to be wife that loves me. Doesn't care I use that to have sex with. Infact I think she would enjoy it much more if they did make a ejaculating prosthetic. You don't understand what it's like being transgender. All I can say is making products like this can help transgender people. So yes it is worth it and is needed. No it's not useless if it helps people like me. Also me envying biological men or seeing pregnant women is only my emotions getting to me. I have a right to feel like this. I really wish we got married before sex but things happened. I'm not Christian far from it, but I just feel better being married and then have sex.

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  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago

    I like cumming on them better than in them.

    You need to adjust your thinking. If a guy looses his genitals in a war or an accident are you saying he is no longer a man? You seem to have a narrow definition of what it is to be a man.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      I would too but I'm talking about procreation here. I also would cum on there stuff if I could. Lol no,but I would be happy if I was born a biological male. Narrow thinking? I'm just stated the facts.

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      • CozmoWank
        5 years ago

        You can choose to be unhappy or you can reevaluate your thought process.

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        • Zonfire80
          5 years ago

          Ok

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  • rayb12
    5 years ago

    As a cis man I can say that what you are describing is quite rare. Typically we wear condoms so nothing is going inside of her. And even if she is on the pill most girls will not want you cumming inside them as it is not 100% certain.

    So it really would only occur in the isolated cases when you are looking to raise a child, and even still this doesn't always work. I'm pretty sure my semen is not fertile. Many women are not either.. artificial insemination is sometimes required etc.

    This thing about cumming in a girl really has very little to do with being a man.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Biological a male has XY chromosomes. Has testicles that carries sperm. That is what makes a man. I'm sorry but those are the facts. Every cell in my body is female. I'm on testosterone but that will never make me a biological man. I don't have XY chromosomes. Yes there are conditions where people are born with more chromosomes. Like XXY or YYX. That's still rare. But even with that you are what you are. There are male intersex and vise versa. Inside a persons body will tell there sex. Now I can appear to look like a biological male. That still doesn't make me a biological man. A man like I said is someone with a penis that can produce sperm. That's a real man weather what people or SJW think other wise. Now I call myself a transman because that's what I am. I'm a man but not a biological one. I'm still will always be biologically female. No one sees this but science will. It really doesn't matter but I'm just trying to be honest with you. I'm still a man but mentally, but I'm not a biological one. Never will be. Also cumming into a girl is only natural. A biological man can do that. If you mean mentally on what it means to be a man then that's different.

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      • rayb12
        5 years ago

        We are not like wild animals. You only cum in a girl if you are trying to start a family together. It's a very circumstancial thing.

        I'm saying that in general this is not something that cis men do.

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      • rayb12
        5 years ago

        I'm talking about the behavior.
        From a cis man's perspective this is only something men do a couple of times in their life.
        It has no bearing on a man's day to day life, and if they need to use artificial insemination it is not a big deal.

        If you want to talk about biology OK. But cumming in a woman is a behavior, and is not something cis men think about or would associate with their masculinity.

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        • Zonfire80
          5 years ago

          Why not? Is it a girly thing to do? Please explain?

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          • rayb12
            5 years ago

            It's not something we ever think about. Some guys never do it. And if you do do it, you are only thinking about pregnancy and the responsibility of fatherhood and whether or not it was successful in fertilization.

            This idea of some masculine instinctual act of just cumming in a girl is not realistic. Only people with sociopathy would be thinking this way when cumming, because the reality is this entails an enormous amount of responsibility.

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            • Zonfire80
              5 years ago

              I am bipolar but that doesn't make me a sociopath. I understand what you mean.

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