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My ex-wife is seeing a black guy. We have been divorced for eight years and our two daughters are grown and living on their own. I was remarried four years ago. So what right do I have being pissed about anything my ex does with her life? Beats the hell out of me. But I'm pissed. Did not think I could be so racist. But I am. Don't know this guy, but I have no doubt that on some major holiday in the future our paths will cross. Maybe at a Christmas dinner at one of my daughter's houses where my ex wife and I are invited to. My daughters think very highly of this guy. But thats only because their mother seems so happy lately. I understand that the woman deserves to be with a person that she is happy with, but I can't get over the black guy thing. I don't dislike black people, I really don't. But I don't like the mother of my children sleeping with one. Are my feelings just racist or maybe racist and normal? My current wife and my two daughters are on the black guy's side so this is the only place for me to vent my feelings.

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  • H8CriminalsWithaPassion
    9 years ago

    I believe that if people are stupid enough to commit a crime in the first place, that they don't deserve a 2nd chance. Why? Because MOST (maybe not all), crooks are repeat-offenders and don't give a crap about the people they mug, rape, abuse, vandalize, or swindle. Let's not forget about those bastards that harm animals. I think it's a waste of money and building space for governments to simply incarcerate these people only to welcome them back time and time again (Because I heard somewhere that once you become a crook, you're doomed to always be one and you can't live a normal life from that point onward). Just do away with these people and move on (makes me wish we had a on-demand Death Penalty for every crook). There's no sense in trying to "reform" someone who has a very low chance of ever being a good person. Once a person's a
    crook, always a crook in my opinion.

    The ONLY exceptions I have are those who smoke pot, smoke regular cigarettes, chew tobacco, do drugs, and drink alcohol. As long as they do it recreationally and it doesn't effect others in a negative fashion don't deserve to be in jail and aren't "crooks" in my eyes. I don't consider streakers or exhibitionists "crooks" either UNLESS they start to sexually harass another person (Or they start to release all of their biohazardous body waste in public where people eat. Examples: non-bathroom Diaper-Changers and public Breastfeeders).

    For you public BFers, there's BREAST PUMPS and BOTTLES (So don't give me that shit that the baby will "starve" if it doesn't get mom's tit). Use them (pump BEFORE going out in public and just give the infant a bottle. No one wants to get your baggy, veiny, breasts).

    and for you non-bathroom Diaper Changers, USE A FRIGGIN CHANGING TOWEL/MAT AND TAKE THAT CRAP TO A BATHROOM. Not all bathrooms are dirty, people. No one wants to see your kid's genitalia or smell their waste. No one wants their food and drinks contamined by breastmilk, urine, or feces either. No, baby shit is still shit therefore, IT'S STILL UNSANITARY. It's not "clean" like many of you baby-worshippers/diaper sniffers believe.

    And yes, I did just compare these women to criminals. I don't know about you, but exposing unsanitary fluids and body matter in public seems like a HUGE criminal offense to me. If one MUST do that, they should keep it where it belongs: the BATHROOM.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Are you sure that your anger isn't due to jealously? Or, would you not have an issue if he were your ethnicity?

    I am not going to hop onto the racist card. It comes off to me that jealously aside, that you may be feeling insecure over her choice. In terms of racial hierarchy, the "white man" has usually been at the top, with other racial groups coming in after. This probably has its roots in politics with Colonialism, the slave trade, etc. With the slave trade, the Africans were made out to seem like inhuman heathens, the lowest. The beliefs/inflections from the slave trade are still present to day. You probably picked up on these beliefs without realising it.

    Many people have the tendency to feel awry with someone from an "outsider group" tries to become a part of their group/gene pool. It doesn't have to mean that you are an racist/evil person.

    If you are open to the idea, why don't try to get to know him? They've given him good reviews- he sounds like 5 star restaurant! It may help to ease some of the feelings you've been having. It may even put some to rest. :)

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Go ahead man, be angry Im not judging you. Chances are she's having intercourse with this man and she'll probably get preggers. So If this makes you feel any better here are some real life facts. Among Black children, 48.5% are growing up with a single custodial parent. 5 out of every 6 custodial parents are mothers (84%).

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  • rickrick
    9 years ago

    So blame Obama. Or Al Sharpton. Or Bozo the clown. Fact is that once you go black . . . Get over it, Dude. And you too CountessDouche. You liberal prude.

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  • FuzzaMuzza7
    9 years ago

    Maybe it's just jealousy, whoever you're with now just fuck her a bunch that'll help

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  • anti-hero
    9 years ago

    You want your ex back or you're racist. Did she have any other white men after you? Did that bother you? P.S. I assume you're white.

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    This is the third or fourth subversively racist and situationally justifiable post I've seen in the past few weeks. Coincidences...are they normal?

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