Totally evil person

This person I have found out has lied, cheated, stolen, has a gambling and prescription and shopping addiction. If it wasn't for the spouse (who makes a lot of money) saving the family, yes they have children who this person could care a less about, they would be homeless and without everything. I am friends with both of them but they are separating and this person is making it out like they did nothing wrong and it's the other persons fault totally! This friend has asked me to lie for them on multiple occasions and treated me as though I am beneath them.
I am no longer going to be this person's friend because I can not stand by and be treated like crap and see them treat their family like they are worthless. Even the children are crying and asking me "what did I do, why don't they care about me, am I a horrible person" who does this crap to their family.
Mind you I could go on and on...shoot even write a book. Is it normal for a person to behave like that and not give a crap about anyone other than themselves and what they can get?

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Based on 39 votes (10 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • randomjelly

    It's a sad story but you have your own life and it's best to mind your own business and not fret over problems you can't solve.

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  • hornsby123

    What a complete bitch. I bet she's after half of the family home paid for by her husband's hard work (while she's been at home taking the old in-out-in-out for hours on end from whatever hired help she can get her hands on), to sell for gambling money. Women like this don't deserve to live.

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  • mieoux

    There are a lot of people like that, they are called sociopaths. You really need to distance yourself and remove them from your life. Disconnect and stay as far away from them as possible.

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  • nothing2

    they might percieve everybody else as lying and cheating and stealing. they had to pick it up somewhere.

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  • Telewheels

    Why would you want to be friends with this person ? I would stay away, and if you can't, stay out of their family matters - it's not your business what happens in their love or financial lives.

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    • No1isnormal

      I am no longer friends with this person. And I KNOW its none of my business LOL. I never ask or asked to know - they tell me. Even as a friend there are certain things you don't want to know or have to know about a person.

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  • sansimage

    Sadly it is somewhat common. The person is obviously an addict and needs a 12-step program. The charateristic addict is completely selfish and self-centered, and relieves him/herself of all blame and responsibility. The person may treat you like you're beneath them, but that's only because inside they feel they are worthless. Remember, this person isn't evil, he/she is just very sick so try to have compassion.

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    • No1isnormal

      I've had a lot of compassion and tried several times to help them over the past 20 years. They continually refuse help and have been telling lies to people about me and affecting my personal life as well as my working career. And what you said is totally true....they do need help and have even done an intervention which went way wrong because they do not see themselves as having problems or needing help....it was the rest of us. I feel my separation is needed. I am hoping they will admit they have a problem and seek help for it. It is very upsetting to me this has come down the way it has.

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