Too shy o.o

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I'm a 20 year old virgin, and I'm pretty shy. Girls always say I'm really attractive, and yet I've only kissed a girl a couple times. The only time I've ever had a girlfriend is from hookups. Whenever I talk to a girl in real life, I get really sarcastic, and then they think I hate them or something. I've been getting better, but I'm still pretty bad lol.. Idk what to do. I feel like I'm just going to grow old and alone, haha. I don't really have any friends anymore, and I'm going to boot camp for the Navy in 5 months. I hardly go outside to even get the chance to talk to girls now. I don't know what's wrong with me.

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  • random_man
    13 years ago

    same way man... curse of sarcasm

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    If you could suck me off I would explain everything to you.

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    To the original poster- I'm not your DAMN FUCKIN SON!

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  • mstriker43
    13 years ago

    i am the same way... it was a month before 20th birthday that i got my first kiss... i have been in a relationship now for 11 months with a very outgoing woman which is probably the only way i would have met her. I would sugest to find very out going people (especially women) and just talk to them and to meet people go to college or even get a short term job where younger people work and just be kind you dont have to say much even just be yourself and things will work out. Sarcasam is bad at times but if used right can still get you a date some women love sarcasam others not so much you can use it just make sure the tone of your voice isnt mean, even throw in a little laugh afterwards. Best of luck =)

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  • timebobbu
    13 years ago

    IM ALSO SHY O.o

    THIS EMOTION PROVES IT O.o

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    • timebobbu
      13 years ago

      ignore that id rather say

      IM ALSO SHY O.o
      THANKS TO THIS EMOTICON o.O

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  • rockinrosie1212
    13 years ago

    i think its cute when a guy i shy (:

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  • whyamisoparanoid
    14 years ago

    i think that being sarcastic is a very normal reaction to feeling shy. a lot of people just don't see through the tough exterior to realize you're just insecure. i know, i used to be the same way. you just need someone to see through it and break you down so that the sweet you can shine through.
    good luck!

    ps. if you find yourself really interested in someone explain that to them- you're just shy and that's your defense mechanism.

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  • Jennalee
    14 years ago

    I was just like you until I stared hanging out with people who are really loud and random.shyness does grow out.

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  • Pozzingtonofpozzingtonmanner
    14 years ago

    hey dont worry, try not to think about it, pepol are diferent, try to think of ur self as how u want to be, remember sex isent everything, at least u can say u dont have a std

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