Too embarrassing to see a doctor! is it normal to feel like this!?

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I was only a virgin a month ago and every time I have intercourse with my boyfriend, I feel like I need to use the bathroom!
So I always stop before I'm fully pleasured during it, because I'm so scared that I might accidently release my bowels in front of him or fart.

I feel too embarresed to talk to a doctor about this, one reason being I'm not out to anyone about being gay and dont want to be yet. I'm scared the doctor might be disgusted with me or my problem.
Could someone please tell me if this is normal?!

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Cookiecutter

7 years ago

Just go to the doctor if your that concerned, they wont care and have seen way worse that what your talking about. Doctors don't get embarrassed its their job to help you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  If I can't find the answer here than I will probably have to go see a doctor.
  I can't help feeling embarrassed about it, but I guess I have to sort it out soon.
  
  I have met a female doctor in the past who felt uncomfortable talking to me about risk of anal intercourse when I was still a virgin with my current bf.
  
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  - Cookiecutter
    
    7 years ago
    
    If its easier find a female doctor and don't go back to that one find someone you are comfortable with and who can openly talk to you if you have questions or concerns.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Yeah I'll do that, think it's the best thing to do in the end anyway.
      Forgot how many trolls there are on this website.
      Thanks for your opinion I really appreciate it.
      
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      - Cheet0
        
        7 years ago
        
        **Just so you know, it isn't a doctor's place to judge you/your sexuality. If they somehow let something "out" about you that you don't want, they can be sued for releasing your HIPPA protected info...
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago
        
        Thank you for letting me know. I feel more reassured about my secret about my sexuality now.
        
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Smith_Xeno

7 years ago

I'm pretty sure when your about to "cum" it feels like your going to pee.

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- Smith_Xeno
  
  7 years ago
  
  go to the bathroom before intercourse if you think you're still worried.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    7 years ago
    
    But go to the bathroom first does help if I feel like peeing. Just not for number 2.
    
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    - Smith_Xeno
      
      7 years ago
      
      Your body shouldn't allow anything to come out anyway.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago
        
        Yeah after seeing a doctor they told me it was probably nerves. But recommended for me to see a specialist if I'm still worried.
        
        Guess I gotta see another doctor. Yeah I think maybe I'm just to nervous.
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  It mainly feels like I need to do a number 2.
  I've tried going to the bathroom before but I end up not needing to go or it just doesn't change anything.
  
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Cedric_Diggory

7 years ago

I think the poop wants to come out of your anus because your mouth is shut tightly as you try taking all of your partner's penis on offer.
So this compression builds up and the only pressure release valve at disposal is your anus.
If you open your mouth then the poop can escape out of it like how sausage comes out continuously from the sausage grinder.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  This comment right here is a great example of why everyone can't be a doctor.
  
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  - Cedric_Diggory
    
    7 years ago
    
    When I grow up I want to be a lion. So the joke's on you
    
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abloodieddogscockforbrunch

7 years ago

Queer cunt!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  And your point is?
  
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FattyQueercakes

7 years ago

Of course, that's how all gays have sex, you should "release your bowels" on his chest , trust he'll love it! :)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Yeah I'll do that next time if I want to instantly break up with him. Yeah nope. -_-
  
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  - FattyQueercakes
    
    7 years ago
    
    You're boring
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Thank you, boredom makes me money while crazy will get you locked up.
      
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