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Is it alright for an inexperienced yet very mature 18-year-old girl to attend a BDSM themed club/manor alone? Or is it better to be older, more experienced with sex, and accompanied by a close friend just to be safe?
Tis a good question, always wanted to go to one, I am 20 and in the same boat, I shall lurk this one
It’s ok to go alone but be smart. Assuming your looking for a dom. Know that not all doms are the same and some will call themselves doms even though they have no understanding of what it means to be a dom. Do not submit sexually to any dom who is not willing to earn that submission. If a dom doesn’t know about or follow the ssc rule. Don’t trust them. They are not true doms. Talk to the subs that have been in the group for a while. They will help you a lot. Be smart and you’ll be fine.
I've never been to one, but if I was inexperienced I wouldn't go alone. I'm guessing there are signals in BDSM to say you've had enough and you may not know the lingo well enough. Maybe you can meet someone on something like AdultFriendFinder to get some experience and if you like them you have a partner to attend the next BDSM party.