Told my boyfriend his kid is dumb

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I already know how childish my behavior was but I do need to know if it's a normal reaction to being hurt. my bf and I have had a lot of trust issues. Recently he invited me out to dinner then (Long story short) cancelled because he had to pick up his kid.(he's a single dad with a 4th old and arranged every other weekend with his son). I didn't believe he was telling the truth and caught him in a lie to confirm he had cancelled our date and most likely was with another woman. I was so angry because earlier that week I had broken up with him, rejected his date invite and then "allowed" him to sleep over spend time with me and say yes to going out with him (in which he cancelled anyways) I was so infuriated that he manipulated me and then worse had me say yes to date I initially rejected only to cancel AND go to same dinner event with another woman. It has been 3yrs since we have been. "a couple" and the last year I have not spent anytime with him while his son is present. He gets on my nerves he's spoiled is disrespectful, rude and vengeful. (shocking from a 4yr old but i have found from this site quite normal). So I texted my bf (he wouldn't answer calls) his boy is stupid, a puppet just like a monkey his kid is dumb stupid. Is it normal to say such awful things about a kid cuz because I'm mad at his dad. Today his dad sent me a picture of his son with comment "hi my name" he knows I don't like his son and sends me pic to irritate me and it DOES ugh. So I sent him a stick figure animation of a person running into a wall (retarded) and I replied with "how cute he is" . Immature yes but I want to do more ..... I think I just answered my own question yes it's normal to want to be vengeful and hate a bratty 4th old of a guy (boyfriend) who acts like a lowlife and bugs me with pics of his brat. Ok then my question is is it normal for him to go through all that trouble to irritate me just because I INITIALLY rejected his date invite? Every time I'm strong and reject or ignore him he finds a way to get me back and then ditch me or make me feel stupid or irriated. Is his behavior NORMAL...

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago | pl

    Omg your both retarded -.- you both have acted very very immature, do youself a favor and break it off completely. I can't believe you insulted a kid because he's 'a brat' and his dad annoyed you, here's some advice, don't date single dads if you can't handle a kid!!!

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    4th year old?

    Reading your story made me cringe.

    Weirdo!! -_-

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  • Energy
    12 years ago

    Psh, in one story someone was like "Is it normal to want to kill a certain kid" bla bla bla and everyone was like "I hate kids too!" and here it's totally different!

    YES IT'S NORMAL. His kid sounds just like him
    Just dump his ass and find someone worth it.

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    • joybird
      12 years ago

      Every story is different and the reactions.

      It's ok to find kids annoying if they are annoying you but the OP here has no contact with the rugrat and is just using the brat to hurt the dad. The dad is stuck with his son but not with her.

      I think the issue here really is which one is the first to delete the other ones number! That's the winner in this competition of stupidity!!

      Find a new man OP!!

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      • Energy
        12 years ago

        Good point!

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  • penpal21
    12 years ago

    Agreed...you both sound incredibly immature.

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  • taylorsage25
    9 years ago

    Ok; your a big girl act like one. Not to be mean, but this is the thing do not burn your self with people. This child is four years old, he did not ask to be born. You are a jealous girl and too jealous to date a man with children. Do this man and his child a favor, tell your boyfriend to move on, because you are not ready for a guy with a child. First question to ask when you meet a man is do you have children and if it is a yes, then you need to look else were and be honest tell them you are too jealous. I understand the feeling being second best to a man and his child because the ex and the kid will always come first. Though I NEVER EVER HURT A CHILD'S FEELINGS, OR HAVE BEEN MEAN. Children need love and attention with people that will love them. If you have sex with single dads do not kiss them or fall in love, because it will make you crazy jealous. Best wishes I hope I helped you get some counseling its ok to seek help if you have a troubled heart.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    You want to know if it's "normal" to lash out at a child because you're mad at the parent?

    Seriously? You're trying to justify that?

    O_o you already know what you did is wrong. stop trying to make up excuses

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  • -WhySoSerious-
    12 years ago

    It seems like the most mature out of you three is that 4 year old.

    Learn from him a thing or two,

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  • chatter289
    12 years ago

    now that made me LOL!!!! hahahahahaha... hun, move on, let it lye! Whats happened has happened. This 'relationship'is NOT going anywhere, literally, it wont! You have learned form it, i hope you have, and now... move on and stop being a child. If you feel like apologising do it, say you had no right to say what you did and that you would like to keep your piece and for both of you to move on with your lives. If he responds by being an asshole than don't bother responding back, be the upper hand.

    good luck

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