To wish i never had a mom?

If you'd never had a mom, well you wouldn't be, would you?
I'm with reminiscent about the food stamps thing; call the proper authorities right away. If you do not, YOU might end up owing a lot of money, if she gets caught.
The child care thing is much more difficult, unless you don't care if the child is raised by social services. They will certainly take the child away from her if she isn't caring for it well enough. But all that might be a moot point, because three years of cheating on the food stamps may get her sent to jail, anyway.
You've got some good bargaining chips, or some hard decisions to make. Good luck.

For 14 long years i grew up my grandma, and i even called her "Mommy". Life with her was like living in heaven! She loved me very much, taught me how to a good woman, always be kind and nice to others....we were very poor! We had two set of clothing, and we wear each other clothing. She made hammock from dried banana trees, and I went fishing for foods. She would trade the hammocks for rice. We eat fish almost every day....grandma told me everything about her life and that both of her husbands got killed when she was only 23 years old. She would never saying anything about my mother or father maybe because it will make me sad. Growing older i realized i looked different not like the girls in the village. They started made fun of the way i looked and laughed when I called my grandma "mommy". I was now started to wonder. Grandma refused to explain, but she could keep the secret for long when I asked the elders in the village about us. That was she told me about my mother....for the first time i was feel afraid that she will appear in my life and took me away from my grandmother...

You can inform the proper people about the food stamps since thats not legal. .. you can also call tge cops if she abandons her child at your house...she will get in trouble.

Also you can call the cops and have her removed from your home.

Or move and dont give her your address.

It's so rare to find someone who is in the same boat as me, who wants LESS attention from their parents. Though I must admit, my own mom is nowhere near as bad as yours.

If you haven't already, I urge you to take control of your life as soon as possible. Relocate to a different city, and call whoever you call for Food Stamp questions about getting your name taken off your mother's card.

I recently moved to another city to escape my controlling mother, and so far it is the best decision of my life. I have never felt so free and safe before. I beg you to do the same. Just moving half an hour away from her can make you feel like you've transported to a whole new, peaceful universe.

My life is a long sad story because I have a mother! I'm still learning to forgive her! Even if i forgive her one day, I would ever never forget what she did to me!!!

Life for hard after the war, to protect herself, my mother married a local vietnamese man. She even sent my older to rise to prove she got nothing to do with the Americans. Grandma now had two mouths to feed! My grand love loved my sister, but not as much as me. That made my sister very angry. My sister always think that my grandmother love me more, and therefore would give me more goodies. Grandma was very fair, she always divided up the goods, and told me sister to pick first. I would care if she got more, but it was always a big deal that she got more of everything . Still my sister was happy and suggested grandma to put goods on a scale to make sure they were evenly divided. Lol

My grandmother told me that my father loved me very much even i was not born yet. I remembered wondering why he never came back for me. Later i learned, my mother sold my birth certificate to her friend, who had a daughter about my age. She told her friend "here your ticket to America. My husband will come back, and all you have to do is show this birth certificate to him. He will take you and your daughter to America." How much was my Identity worth? About 10 usd! I do not know if my father ever came back for me, but if he did then some woman out there in the United States living under my identity! ???

I am very confuse when talking about mothers! My mother is a nobody but someone gave birth to me. She never wanted me or loved me! She used me in every way she can to make money. My mother left me right after gave birth to me. I met her when I was 14 yrs old. She told me away from my beloved grandmother and sold me for 100 usd. Later i learned she sold my older sister too just a few months before that. During this horrible two yrs living with this family, I was kept inside the house not allow to see anyone. I was sexually assault by the man of the family, whom I was forced to call "DADDY". Later i go rapped by the oldest son of the family. While i was living in hell, my mother was spending the money on a huge wedding. Her friends asked about me, she said "i sold her, it is for her own good because she is going to be a prostitue anway". My mother met my father during the vietnam war in 1973. My father was a contractor and stay about a yr in vietnam. Before leaving vietnam, he said he would come back to take me and my mother to the United States. My mother never wanted to have me, but she kept the pregnancy because my dad agreed to pay for everything. But at soon as my father left vietnam back to the states, she wanted to terminate the pregnancy right away. Before I was already 6 1/2 months, she had to give birth to me by taking some drugs. She left me at the clinic to dead! When my grandmother found me at the clinic, she said I was covered by ants and thought I was dead. I cry every time thinking about this... Grandma said "van, when I saw you, you were so small like red mouse. You had no hair or fingernails, and you were covered with ants." She told me to a country side and rised me as her own child. With no money, we stayed from one house to another. Because I was born premature, I was very sick, cried all the times. She begged on the street for food, she chewed the foods and fed me....

Without your mom .. you'll never exist, silly

To my surprise here are written a lot of "I hate my mother" posts. I don't like my mother or my father as well so I feel with you. Why do the most people seem to only dislike their mother and not their father? Interesting.

Don't hate your life man. Make it better! Can't you just enlighten her? Tell her what she's doing wrong and if she doesn't stop to make you drive crazy you kick her out of your house? I mean, it's your house and there are your rules.