To want to cheat?

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I have a boyfriend that I want to marry when were old enough. But I'm attracted to other guys. Why?!

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Based on 56 votes (42 yes)
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  • fox
    14 years ago

    Everyone on the planet finds other ppl than their mate attractive. It's normal. But if you are going to cheat on him that's not fair and you should break it off or stay faithful. But it's normal to think ppl are hot and be attracted to them

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  • theAnomilyGuy
    13 years ago

    Human nature. That's why haven't even got mad at my wife when I'd found out that she'd cheated when it was meaningless. To do so I think would be hypocritical. Don't make the mistake of thinking that other people would think the same way as me though.

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  • MarijuAtheist
    13 years ago

    This is what happens when you get into a serious relationship when you're young. Have you dated other people? The urge to cheat could be out of boredom or curiosity. If you think it's out of curiosity and want to see what else is out there, I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about it. If you want to fuck other guys, have the decency to break up with your boyfriend first. Cheating is wrong, no matter what the circumstance.

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  • peekey
    14 years ago

    It is perfectly normal to look at other guys when you have a boyfriend and even when you're married.

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  • LittleMissMetal
    14 years ago

    Maybe he's not right. I'm only attracted to my man of 1 1/2 years. I plan on marrying him.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    maybe you are too young to commit to marriage.

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  • Kai'Layah
    14 years ago

    human nature. do not act on the impulses though if you plan to marry your boyfriend.

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  • alyssa_martz
    8 years ago

    It's normal to find other people attractive but it's not normal to cheat on your partner.

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  • PwrpufGrl
    13 years ago

    to see other guys and be attracted to them is normal. to want to cheat is not. if you want to cheat, you are not ready for a relationship and/or you are not happy with your current partner. in that case, you need to break up with him. sometimes we may think that we have found the right person, but it is the wrong time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Because your human?

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  • SwimBikeRun
    14 years ago

    Have you taken the time to date other people? Don't get married if you're not ready.

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  • frend
    14 years ago

    UHH A BIG PROBLM HAN I TELL U
    C NOTHNG IS WRNG TO ENJOY SEX WITH DIFFRNT MALES OR TO HAV A LOVE GUY WHOM U CAN MARRY ...BT U CANT HAV BOTH SAME TIME OR U WIL LOOSE THE GUY SOON..SO DNT B CONFUSD THESE ARE TWO DIFRNT PATHS U WANNA GO...

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  • bunnyboo22
    14 years ago

    I say u should just cheet and then still marry the guy

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