To want him, but don't at the same time?

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So, i started going out with this guy i really like. I met him in art club, and we talked a little, but when i found out he liked me, i got kinda shy, and there are some awkard silences, and i hate being alone with him, because i don't want it to be awkward. But those aren't what's really bothering me. What's really bothering me, is that i always have this feeling like i should break up with him. I mean he's really sweet, and i love being around him. But when we aren't together, is when i want to be single again. I hate being single, but i don't like being in a relationship eiter. It's a lose lose for me. I don't know what it means.
Is this normal?
And can someone please tell me why i'm having these feelings?

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  • TheIntellect
    13 years ago

    You like him as a person unfortunately it doesn't seem like he's a keeper. You enjoy him but only to an extent. It's understandable.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    I do this same thing. As soon as I get into a relationship, and I'm talking like two hours in, I want out immediately.
    I stay single just because I know I'll let guys down. I'll really like a man, but as soon as he wants to be exclusive I'll back away.
    You'll figure out what you want, just take it slow with this guy.

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