To talk to a girl for years, have a crush on each other yet not date?

I've been talking to this girl for years, I have a crush on her, she has a crush on me, we are really close, we talk daily for hours, we share secrets, insiders, and we are in love with each other yet we never asked each other out nor dated.

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  • Shackleford96

    So ask her out, what are you waiting for? What have you got to lose?

    If you wait too long, she may end up thinking you really don't have any special feelings for her. Then how would you feel if she found someone else? Hmm?

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  • Voiceeeeee

    We are dating now, I asked her out on 9/11/2014. (:

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  • toxic-mecha

    Ask her, but if she doesn't want to, it sounds like you have a good thing going on without dating.

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  • Tarkio

    it will happen. If you care about her and she cares about you, keep the connection going, and one day, maybe not tomorrow, maybe not for 5 years, but one day she will fall in your arms.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Ask her. If she says "No" try not to let that get in the way of your friendship.

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  • Buddy, if you've been talking to this girl for years and you have romantic feelings towards her, I suggest you man up and ask her out. Were you expecting her to ask you out? Come on now, you're the guy aren't you?

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