To not be attracted to your own ethnicity
So I have sort of been coming to terms with something and I have been getting a lot of push back from my friends whom i've discussed this with.
I am a white male, 24, and I don't really feel that attracted to white girls. Like across the board really. The absolute hottest of them are like, pretty to me. And as far as dating goes, I've tried it and have ended it every time because I would just lose attraction to them after awhile.
I much prefer other ethnicity's especially Asian and Latin American. I just think they are more attractive and I think there is even some compatibility based on values and culture. Sure there are a lot of culture clashes too but that doesn't bother me. Now of course my friends said that was a little racist and fetishy. And I won't say if it is or isn't but I just want to know what you guys think. Personally I don't think it's racist. If anything, saying that you can't date other races seems more racist. And as far as fetishes go I honestly don't think that plays a part. I am not sitting there thinking, "oh man I need an Asian woman to dress up as a maid and be submissive". (that's actually kind of gross to me. not judging though.) I just look at them and it feels right. It feels like my attraction to them is real and they are the kind of women I want to get to know better and fall in love with.
It has gotten to the point in my mind where I kind of what to move out of the states to somewhere like China so I can actually date like normal people do here.
Anyway what do you guys think?