To never want to lose my virginity? or become pregnant without sex?

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OK, so I don't know if this is normal, or not. But I REALLY don't want to lose my virginity. Like, I mean, even if I'm old, I still don't want to lose it. I've even had many nightmares over it, where I would lose it and the rest of the dream would just be filled with devastation.
Now I'm not saying I always think of sex as the all-around-sin of the world, and even sometime have a healthy imagination, but I really have fears when it comes to losing it in real life.
Not only from what I hear is it physically painful, but I've also heard/and witnessed tons and tons of horror stories centering around how when a girl gives up her virginity, the man then treats her with less value. Or worse yet, treats her with more disrespect after a break-up, and throws her out like some old dish rag. I've seen this at least a 10000 times or more on reality talk shows like Steve Wilkos, Maury, ect.. And I've also heard many women I personally know (mom, friends) later on recalling how they had made a mistake giving it away. As well as the sense of losing ones innocence that could never be there again. (Both emotionally and physically) So what are your views on this I want to ask the people out there?
Is this at all normal on my side? And is it normal that I would rather get pregnant using other methods beside sexual intercourse? Please reply!

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Based on 18 votes (11 yes)
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  • Niceboy
    9 years ago

    It ok if you don't want to to loose virginity or get pregnant but you have to find the right person to loose your virginity to enjoy it.

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  • DolphinAngel
    12 years ago

    Why is this more normal than my story is^^

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Life is about making mistakes and learning from them. I was 18 when I lost mine and I finally came to the conclusion that when I had sex with this guy, he won't want to talk to me anymore. I just wanted to get it over with before I went to college. I was wrong though. I'm 22 and now we've been dating for 2 years. All you really can do is just wait until you're ready and hope for the best. I don't know if you just never want a boyfriend or husband either but sex is amazing with the right person. Not to sound like an after school special but it really is awesome with the one you love. Of course the guy could just stop talking to you but it's worth the chance and it's part of growing up.

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