To love someone and like another person??

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I used to go out with this boy whom i still love. but while i was going out with him, my best friend said she liked him. she also had a boyfriend who she loved. i thought that you can't love someone while liking someone else at the same time, otherwise it's not love.

Well, now i'm best friends with this other girl, who has a boyfriend that she's been with for nine months. but i heard from someone that she likes this guy who i like. i knew that i shouldn't just believe it's true, but my best friend told me that she became friends with someone she doesn't even know, and she's starting to like him.
I don't know what to do. i feel bad for her boyfriend, because he loves her so much. and i don't know if she accually likes these guys, or she thinks she does. because i still think you can't love one person, and like someone else.

is it normal for me think that's true? and is it normal to like other people and love someone at the same time??

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    your a slut

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  • Sodapopgal22
    13 years ago

    Saddly dear, yes it's true! Woaman do that! That's our nature! I guess you could call us goldigers or whatever! LOL But really, woman love wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to many guys! It's just how we are. We don't care if we hurt others! Hopefully, we learned a thing or two from our mothers! LOL I remember my friend, Danna was dating this rich guy but she had fell in love with one of his's friends! LOL talk about wow! So she started dating both of them, but saddly, even though it was going smooth, rich boy #1 found out about rich boy# 2 so they got into it, she was boyfriend less, they hate her, and well, she's lonley so, yeah that's how we are! Poor Danna! LOL

    Love,

    Sodapopgal22

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  • Piconano
    13 years ago

    It's normal to think that that's true, but I can't say a lot about the loving two people at once. A lot of couples become an "item" not because of love, but because of childish infatuation, simply out of lust, or just to show off.

    Did your friend ever attempt to make a move on the guy you like? She better not have, because she's already got a guy for herself. You could probably try to pry the name of the "someone she doesn't even know" out of your friend.

    If she suspects you're on to something, it's probably best you come clean. If you don't want to come clean, it's going to be a competition between you and her for this guy. Either way, this could get ugly.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      thanks, and i don't know if she ever made a move on him, or if he hasn't made a move on her, cause i know he likes her to. but for some reason, i always have a feeling that after he walks her down to her class, they have a small makeout session at the end of the hallway.
      and the guy said that he doesn't like me (because his friend likes me, so i'm okay with that.)
      but i'm also kinda scared that she's gonna end up trying to meet that one guy she met off the X-Box, but when i tell her he could be some 48 year old pervert, she trys to assure me that since he sent her pictures of himself, that it's fine....

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