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I am 19 and recently started a relationship with a 60year old man who is the same age as my dad. Is it weird that I am more attracted to an older man than someone my age?
an emotional relationship? or just a sexual one? what it likely shows is that you have daddy issues. you're attracted to the maturity of him. but honestly...he's likely just using you for sex.
He must be loaded, either that or you're from one of the following States;
Arkansas, Idaho, Kentucky, Texas, Oklahoma or Tennessee.
Normal to be attracted to older men, but this is a stretch! I am sure you can at least make his last days on earth here pleasurable! Good luck with your future choices
That's a little old for someone your age. I can see maybe getting together with a man in his 40s or even his 50's if he's well preserved since and older guy has a lot of advantages in sex if he's healthy. But you have to think if you're with a guy in his 60's is it because it's a financial windfall you might walk into? If so, look for an older guy nearer to death.
The only thing that matters is that the two of you love each other. You are both of age so who you date is your business.
It's normal if he's loaded, that is, filthy rich! Otherwise, it's sick, sick, sick!
Personally I'd love a lifelong relationship with someone who enjoys pizza as much as I do regardless of how old their taste buds are.
why a sixty yr old bastarf?! Baby, can i fill your cunt full with my tasty cream if ya want..............
CHILL BABY, Im just kiddin!
are u a mad bitch???!!! He is like thrice your age u bitch!
NO problem with it, btt its weird..!
No, I'm 25 years old and I have been dating a 56 year old for three years, and we even have a child together =)
Honey, forget the age. If you enjoy it, fuck him over and over. Bet he just love to eat your pussy. And your asshole. This guy will do ANYTHING you want him to do. You hold all the power. Let him fuck you in the ass. Do it all. Strip naked, and let him tie you to the bed with your legs spread eagle, pussy wide open. have him invite a few of his senior buddies over to gang bang your cunt. You'll cum sooo hard!! Wish I was at the front of the line!!
I had one affair with an 18 year old when I was 60, and another affair with an 18 year old when I was sixty-four. There's a saying "Better an old man's darling than a young man's slave" and I'm sure these girls, both of whom knew I was married, very much appreciated my sxual experience (they both had great orgasms) and my kindness to them.
Yuck He can get it up once a week and his balls are all saggy and shit. Disgusting. that is NOT normal.
Whatever floats your boat. Considering all the crazy things people are attracted to, a sixty year old is hardly the most shocking and revolting thing to be attracted to.
Not only is it normal, it's totally cool as it give me a thrill since I'll still be banging teenagers when I'm in my sixties.
he is done with the drugs drinking and whoring around and is stable home body now no worry about him leaving you . in a couple of years s.s. kicks in
many famious people marry april december
but remember he will want to stay home while you will want to run around
I would ask if this is emotional or physical, but if it was anything but physical, that would mean long term.. If you had kids, he'd be 80 years old when they move out, and maybe not even alive by then. Very strange decision indeed.
If our bodies never aged would it still be weird for someone with 60 years of experience to have a relationship with someone with 20 years?
There is a lot of feeling evoked when a life in its early bloom is put side by side visually with a shrivelling and dieing form, but the soul inside the older person is much the same. You always here "im old but i feel the same inside as when i was young".
I think practically such relationships are very short lived, because the older person ceases to function properly when the younger person is still in the peak of the physical prowess. Not very romantic helping your husband to the toilet.
I do believe the following formula should be stuck too:
Never have a relationship with anyone that is younger than half your age, plus 7 years.
He can manipulate you, and then you will have difficulties trying to have normal relationships with people @ your age the rest of your life.
Hey, girl. I can see you need some advice from someone who's been there. I'll start by telling you I'm 17, do very well in school, am a very reasonable human being and was recently in a "relationship" with a 46 year old man. It was short lived, but it made me realize that it's not at all how people imagine it. He's a good man, in fact still a close friend of mine. He only meant me well, didn't push me into any situations I didn't want to be in and supported me in finding someone after we "broke up". He was a kind of father figure to me, gave me kissing lessons ;) But I just wanna point out that there was no perversion at all in our thing, it was all based on respect for each other. He admired my maturity and I admired his positive and incredibly sunny attitude to life.
The reason I would ask you to question relationship is because mine wasn't equal. We were in different parts of our lives. He wanted to get married, have kids...and it was my first relationship, I'm studying and preparing for my life. By the time I'd be old enough to have a decent relationship with him, he'd have been old and wouldn't have what he wanted out of a relationship.
I believe the large age gap CAN work. But you need to think about you, honestly. A 60 year old man has already reached his life expectancy. (OR very fucking close. So don't ride my ass if the age isn't statistically perfect IIN users.)
*Ahem, moving on. This means you've got what, 10-15 years tops? That would entail having children very soon (If this guy is "the one" you naturally procreate, in most cases.) and the children wouldn't have their father for very long.
Not to mention YOU. You would have to care for yourself for decades, or remarry. So why even bother spending time with someone when you'll have to start all over with someone else?
I dunno, these are just the few main things that came to my mind at first when I read this. I wouldn't even want to put myself into that situation. I need someone to grow old with, not watch die.
SOOOOOOO, I voted not normal. But that doesn't mean it can't work, you just need to be dedicated..
Woah, that's seriously old as fuck. I mean, I worked at a some place where a bunch of Philipino guys worked too, and they all looked like they were about 20 years old and one of them had a thing for me but he turned out to be 36 which is twice my age and that to me was too old to date, let alone 60. Holy fuck.
Copied from another post of mine.
But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.
I have dated a guy who was 48 when I was 22. My dad is 63 and I just can't imagine him dating a 19yr old. It's hilarious. If you feel good with the relationship then it's ok but be sure that people will judge your relationship and that many will say that you are being abused. Do you think you are strong enough for that? If yes then love
60 is a huge stretch, I'd say 40 is more reasonable. He's not going to be around too long, maybe another 10-20 years at best. Women also tend to live longer than men.
But generally I'm in support of older/younger relationships, as long as the guy isn't a scumbag.
I'll add, with him being 60 that's almost a 2 generation gap. So there's much less you'd have in common with each other that a man who's one generation gap away.
For instance I'm 40 so I'm familiar with disco music, then 80s, 90s and so on. I used to go clubbing a lot and house, freestyle and early hiphop was big at the time.
We also had recently come out of the cold war era, civil rights movement (60s, 70s) and so forth. I had a beautiful childhood growing up, though things got tougher into my late teens.
A girl who's in her 20s might not be acquainted with the music and culture of that time. If she's around my age, then we'd have a common history we could laugh or reminisce about.
I'll admit though, I do find younger girls (18+) to be quite adorable and I find they tend to be attracted to me, so I wouldn't mind being more of a mentor in terms of educating them about about life in the 'olden days.'
25 might be the ideal age, since they would've gotten their education out of the way and are more mature. Though I'm not too picky in this area (age).
Oh and when I was your age, I used to be really attracted to older women 30-40, now it's reversed. But younger or older, she has to be cute or hot in order for me to date her.
physical relations are not possible in yrs of 60 above & its ur madness.