To get kicked out for this?

She's shoving a red flag down your throat, kid. The only clue you need to take is to dump her and move on to someone who isn't so irrational.

She has a problem.
She's trying to avoid problems that she doesn't want to solve so she uses that against you to make herself look like a victim. She's the one who said you could go to her house so that was her own problem if she didn't want to talk about something she can't discuss.

It's like being ungrateful, especially when you got her a gift. I suggest you try and talk to her about these problems, but if she keeps giving you shit like this; then leave her.

She sounds like a crazy bitch, fa real yo.

If she didn't want to see you she shouldn't have invited you to visit her. Fuck that codependent mind game bullshit she's tryin to pull on you!

Leave that bitch. She should say what she means and mean what she says.

I would just leave her altogether if I were you. Not normal at all.

Walk away. Those thumb prints on your forehead will fade, given time.

I think you were quite right to ask to discuss the matter you had an argument about after the heat had cooled. I think that's a very sensible and mature way to deal with such things. Relationships don't survive if tensions and disagreements are allowed to bubble away under the surface like a magma chamber under a volcano.

In fact, I broke off with a woman who was incredible in the sack and had many other positive qualities just because of this; I knew things about me bothered her, but she simply refused to talk about them, and I was sure it would all blow up sooner or later, so I cut my loses.

I particularly liked this bit in your OP:

"...she tells me I can come to her apartment if I want... She also tells me that it was wrong for me to come. I point out to her that she is the one who told me I can come, but she says she was hinting that I shouldn't come, and I should have figured it out."

Yeah, man, WTF is wrong with you? Did you forget to switch on your Reading Between The Lines app or forget to recharge your mind-reading helmet?

Seriously, if that's actually what she said, that's frigging hilarious.

I have heard of particularly stupid and needy women saying stuff like, "You don't _have_ to come over tonight, if you don't want to." Which actually means, "If you don't come over tonight, you clearly don't care about me."

But to switch that around so, "Come over tonight," actually means, "Don't you dare come over tonight!" is really quite creative.

Whatever is going on in her head, there's clearly a failure to communicate. It's possible some of the fault lies on both sides, but it seems her style of communication isn't one you can easily read, so it's better for both of you if she can go off in search of a boyfriend who's psychic.

Or maybe she can grow up and learn how to express her wishes clearly, and how to deal with conflict in a healthy way.

Manipulative, game playing, ho bag. Dump her ass.

it was pretty stupid of you to mention the fight that happened the day before, as if she didn't remember. and you say that you already apologized in the text message, so bringing it up again in her mind that means that you weren't being honest with the apology and have some unfinished business. she wanted you to make her forget about all that and you failed miserably.

women are not complex. women are insane. that why i think someday men will refuse to marry them. soon too. fast approaching . i think gay marriage pushed that date up by at least 15 years. i bet by the year 2035 no marriage happens in the USA.

You are not the brightest bulb are you fella? If you already resolved the issue there is no need to keep bringing it up. The fact you would means it wasn't resolved and you wanted to keep arguing and you just pissed her off.