To feel so unemotional?

I find it difficult to think of any occasion in my life when I've genuinely experienced intense emotions. I've felt excitement sometimes, but when the thing I'm looking forward to actually happens, I return to my normal state. I've never once lost my temper, and even when something important happens like failing my exams I find it difficult to care.

When I hear how other people experience life, I find it difficult to emphasise and often feel I'm missing out on something. I'm more into reading than the average person, but when they talk about books they like they go on about how they 'couldn't put it down' or 'couldn't stop crying at x', while the most I can say for even my favourite books is 'I enjoyed it'. I get the same way when watching sad films or reading about something sad in the news: occasionally I'm affected for an hour or so but nothing seems to have the same kind of impact on me that it would on other people. Over the past few years this flatness has gotten even worse. I could imagine responding strongly to something really dramatic, such as a close friend dying, but for the most part everything seems the same. Is there anything that can be done to change this? I've wondered about depression, but my whole life seems to have been like this.

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  • CountessDouche

    People quite often associate depression with sadness, but for some people despondency or apathy is a symptom, so that could be it. My advice on this type of stuff is usually the same- you need to assess the situation, and decide if this is interfering with your life, if it's somehow keeping you from finding what you want. If it is, there's no shame in getting help for it.

    Not feeling anything isn't normal, but it could be a bunch of things- from autism to depression. If you truly feel as if you are missing out, then maybe you should see someone about it.

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    • blankmind

      I can relate, theres been plenty of opportunities where I should have shown intense emotion but have not..iv been told im emotionless , and it can rub off on ppl from what im told,..but what puts me back on earth with all tbe other ppl is weed, some good ass weeed, bada. Bing.

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  • shuggy-chan

    Where is the doktor, his cyborg is loose again

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  • Lulilummu

    I can't vote cause I pretty much have the same thing. Although it applies to a rather extreme measure sometimes. It get awkward sometimes cause I don't know if I'm suppose to be feeling.

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