To feel like that if you were to ever leave your group of friends they

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Is it normal to feel like that if you were to ever leave your circle of friends they wouldnt notice because it wouldnt make much of a differnce?

I have know some of my friends since I was born, and the other half since high school and i love them all so much, they make me happy.
but i've always felt that i was the black sheep of the circle. when im with one of them, we are always laughing and having a good time but when there is two of them, its like im not even their (you can imagen what its like when there are together). its just we have always had a different taste in style, music, books, movies and men, and those are things we are always talking about, and yes, I have tried to get into their taste of things but i could never get into it, it was really hard for me. when they want to go to a concert or a movie or the mall, im almost never asked, and i have to come to school hearing about what they did together over the weekend. Anyways, when they are talking its like one person will tell a secret and will tell everyone but me, like i wouldnt understand and the only way i can hear the story is if im constantly say "WHAT IS IT? WHAT IS IT? TELL ME, I WONT TELL ANYONE" then they tell me with little to no detail. When i try to get into their conversations, they dont even look at me or react in those low "ohhh" "yeah" "mmhmm" like im a four year old. i have, for my entire life felt like this with these same people and i have tried to befriend new friends, but its hard to find people interested in the things i am in the schools I've been to and im always feeling so alone and i have run out of ideas that could help me and i really need advice, so please give me some.

is it normal to feel like that if you were to ever leave your circle of friends they wouldnt notice because it wouldnt make much of a differnce?

(sorry for grammer errors!)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I bet your friends would be horrified if they knew how you felt - so you should tell them. If you've known them that long, I'm sure they don't mean to hurt you in any way and would stop at once.

    Talk to them.

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  • lola86
    11 years ago

    I felt like you before when I was in high school. don't worry, later when you find new environments,you see there are so many friends that would like to get to know you better. My advise pls don't feel that way. open your mind and make more friends. Of course it hurts when u feel neglected, but you have to remember, no one should bring you down or feel that way :) cheers

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Friends are around to make you feel good, not unnoticed! I think you def need new friends. If you like books or whatever kind of music, go to places where you think you would find those kind of people. If you're uncomfortable going to these places alone, start off by joining a chat room. You just have to be careful, you can't trust many of the people you will find, but there are ways to at least make sure they are really who (18 y/o instead of 72y/o) they say they are such as webcam, etc.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I understand what you mean completely! But your in high school, and not to make excuses, but kids sometimes do things not even realizing that they are hurting someone. But it seems as if your friends may be moving on without you and I know that hurts but its okay, you'll be okay. Although you love them, they may not be the best people for you, you deserve better than being treated like a second rate citizen. Try to explain to them how you feel. But if that doesn't help, invest in some new friends. I know its hard making friends, but it gets easier.

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