To be or not to be an artist? please help

I have been drawing all my life and painting seriously since i was 16. I've always known my destiny was in the world of art. I just don't think I'd be happy any other way. However, I have a family to support now. I'm going for a masters degree in painting and I have a few more years left of college. I have already gotten my a.a. and taken all fine art prerequisites. I have other interests, so i wouldn't mind minoring in something our even a double major. My husband is disabled and won't be able to bring much money into our future and we have a growing toddler to support. What should i do?

follow your dreams and do what you love 32
do what's best for your family.make money.not art. 3
minor in art, major in something certain to make money 16
major in art, but take classes that will give you other skills 15
double major 4
drop out, you suck 3
other helpful suggestion 1
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  • howaminotmyself

    Can you teach it? What about creating a gallery? There are many ways to incorporate art design into business. I know several artists who have made it, some with children. It's tough, but what life isn't?

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  • VioletTrees

    Would it be possible for you to start out as an artist while still working your day job? That's how my parents and some of my friends got started as artists. It's a slower start, but it gives you some security while you get some of your work out there. If you start achieving some success as an artist, you can cut your hours or quit your job.

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  • chezycheze

    I think that your family should be a major contributor in making this decision. You should take our words as merely suggestions, and when it comes down to it, you should talk it over with your husband, kids, parents, advisers, and friends.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      I tried asking my kid, but she doesn't know. She is only 2 though, lol. My husband wants me to get some high paying job that i probably won't be as happy with, but he also supports my decision to pressure a career in art. His family is all about the money. My dad has always been supportive of me financially, but i'm really not sure what his current thoughts are now. I'll ask him :) my mom and sis support me emotionally, but i'm really the only one in my family to go through with the whole college thing.

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  • disthing

    It's only worth focusing entirely on art if people want to buy what you make.

    Have you had exhibitions? Have people shown interest in buying your work? Have you sold work to people who you aren't friends with and aren't members of your family?

    If not, it's a big risk to take. However technically good you are, if you can't make what people want then you won't make money.

    Also, there isn't much studying art can teach you that you can't teach yourself. So I suggest the option - Minor in art, major in something certain to make money. That's the option with the least risk in my opinion, but at least gives you a chance to spend time on your passion :) Good luck

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  • FocoUS

    The starving artist is a myth. I know there's extra pressure since your family is dependent on you but if your skills are good enough you'll make it.

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  • AlphabetCity

    Unfortunately you'd have to be very lucky to make it these days. My dream is to make films and I know I can make people some truly incredible movies to watch dozens of times over and over. I'm going to sell my soul to the corporate world instead because that's the world we live in. Degrees and millions of dollars sounds better than doing what I love and not being certain of my financial safety.

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  • ohplease

    This sounds like a decision that should be made as a family. Unless you're doing some sort of corporate graphic design gig, which I assure you, can pay quite well, I don't know that you would be able to support yourself, let alone a family off painting. Ask yourself this: in the houses and businesses unaffiliated with art or artists that you've been in, how many actual paintings have you seen?

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  • NormalIsOverratedBeANinja

    You've wanted to be an artist all your life. Be an artist. You know you could never live cooped up in an office building every day. Learning to be proficient in another area (that would get you a more stable job) would be useful, but if you really want to be an artist, and your work is good enough, God dammit, be an artist. I believe you can make a living that way if you try. Good luck! <3

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    • ohplease

      She might not be able to live happily cooped up in an office building every day, but I seriously doubt that she could live happily in soul-breaking poverty while watching her child flounder and have a difficult life. I'm not saying she has to be June Cleaver or live in a big house in a fancy suburb, but she has to think of the immediate and physical needs of her child. She cannot just think of her own abstract goals and self-fulfillment. I would be saying the same thing if she were a man. If there was no child or plans to have a child, then I would be saying 'rah rah rah' along with you, but the crushing fact is that once you have a child, there is a moral imperative that your first priority has to be that child.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      Thank you :) That was very encouraging. And good luck to you with being a ninja XD

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  • goodbyekitty137

    im a 4th year student going to a pretty big art school, and i kind regret coming to university for a art/design degree... i think when it comes to art, a degree doesn't really get you anywhere. the school does teach you a bit about the field and you get to make some connections but honestly, who can teach art?? I used to love drawing and painting, and ever since i came to art school i started losing interest in art because i have to do stuff that the profs tell me to do. now that im in my last year of school, i realized that there's no decent job i can get with a art degree lol what the fuck am i going to do with my life now??? if you really love it, and you're good at it, you don' t need a damn art degree. instead i would major in something safe to get my bills and tuitions paid. Remember, you need money to buy good art materials too.... fuckin hell...i may sound pessimistic but this is the reality...

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  • JuneB

    I'd say double major. Making a living as an artist can be hard, but it's far from impossible. You might need to have a quote-unquote real job for a while, but if you're good you can make some real money. Your primary responsibility is to your child now, but that's not to say that you can't still follow your dreams. I'm sure you've probably already heard of this website, but just in case you haven't, you might want to check out Etsy. Good luck!

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    • NormalIsOverratedBeANinja

      Etsy is good for some people, but they do take part of your earnings. I'd recommend ArtFire instead, some people I know have had success with that.

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  • o_0

    i kinda think its a bit late you have all your degrees in arts (i guess) so what will be beneficial for you to think practically in the fields of art only...!!! like you can create a gallery or a kind of showroom with your paintings decorated where you can put your paintings and sell them ....take part in exhibitions to sell your paintings costly...;p !! go into painting only but deep inside and put all your energy and talent for this .... on the other side always keep an option for you as part time to fulfill many of your expenses and keep you satisfied.....
    if you dont mind.... why dont you even engage your husband in some kind of creative work or other work so that he doesn't feel useless and retarded but can help you in any work and feel satisfied like sitting on a counter or any home business he feels easy in... just take it as an advice... BEST OF LUCK!!!

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      Thanks. That is probably what I'll do, since it would take about 4 years or more to start majoring in something else. I think I'll also major in art history, though, since these things go together. My boyfriend plays guitar and he's trying to start up a band. If all works out, I would love for his band to play at my gallery XD

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  • TheGasManCometh

    You totally answered your own question when you said "I've always known my destiny was in the world of art" and "I just don't think I'd be happy any other way" - WOW, when I was younger I would've given anything to feel like that about any possible career - and the fact that it's a cool one (being an artist is cool) makes it even better! So do it - whatever it takes - or make yourself a liar!

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  • YouKnowWho

    Dude, if you get poor, can't feed your family bla bla you can always go live under a bridge or eat berries from some forest or kill yourself or something...Money's so useless, really. Surviving is also useless. Living too. So spend your living time doing what you like.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      That is the most depressing thing I've heard all day. Lol.

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      • YouKnowWho

        The truth is depressing!

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  • Corleone

    I'm afraid we can't give decent advice on that.
    I know a lot of people say "follow your dreams", but I doubt that they ever had money problems.

    If you feel like your art courses are helping you as a painter, you should do them, but keep an open mind about what job you'll do when you graduate. You can always take a simple office job and paint in your free time.

    But... it's your call. This is a huge life decision and we can't give you accurate advice on that.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Follow your dreams.
    Learn to Use the internet to your advantage.
    You could try to tutor someone for extra cash,etc.

    http://nymag.com/arts/art/rules/
    ^^^ Perhaps, this might help?

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  • I heard it is very, very hard to make it in the world as an artist. Personally, if you are taking up the responsibility of provider for a family, I wouldn't recommend it. Perhaps make some paintings in your free time and sell them online? That way you can work and do some art on the side for some extra cash.

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    • VioletTrees

      It can be hard, but I think a lot of people overestimate how difficult it is. There are a lot of very comfortable artists in the world.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    You can excel as an artist, but it will take time and effort to get yourself out there. Try to get a job that's sort of relevant, even an associate's degree in something else you're interested in if you could. It never hurts to have something to fall back on.

    I've considered trying to get a certification for welding since I am already interested in metal sculpture, that way I could work in a factory if I needed it.

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  • anti-hero

    Show us some of your stuff...

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      I will do that in another post or something. I tried to attach a pic, but it didn't work. I think I'd rather get opinions based on emotions rather than judgements of my work first, anyway. Besides, I've only been to community college so far and it wasn't very competitive.

      My profile pic is an unfinished design project for computer imaging, though only slightly representative of my work as a whole.

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      • Avant-Garde

        Do you have a flickr?

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  • Dammit. It was approved before I could figure out how to attach a picture. Oh well, I'm a pretty good artist. I could improve in some areas, but in my opinion I've always been one of the best students in the classes I mainly focus in (painting). I have had the most well-rounded and experimental work. I'm not always the best; I feel I have a vibrant, yet somewhat vague, portfolio.

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    • disthing

      But have you had exhibitions and people showing interest in buying your work? Have you sold you work to people who you aren't friends with and who aren't members of your family?

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      • myboyfriendsbitch

        Yes, people show interest when i do happen to show my work. I've sold a couple in school exhibitions and I've gotten a couple awards. I had someone wanting to buy a painting last semester, but they decided not to last minute. I guess i screwed it up by not putting a price on it to begin with. I've never gotten in a gallery outside of school, but i haven't really tried that hard to either.

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