To be jealous of a gay guy. ...

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my boyfriend hates gay people ok....but he's made friends with one,and I'm perfectly ok with that. my boyfriend doesn't have many friends so I'm happy that he found a friend and made peace eith a gay person. I don't even mind that they hang out....what bothers me is that the gay guy has a huge crush on my boyfriend and my bf sleeps over at him house. I don't care is he goes over,but I get really jealous when he spends the night. I trust him,but I don't trust the gay guy. I've talked to my bf and asked him to not spend the night,but he can still go over but he won't listen to me. he still does whenever he wants. sometimes doesn't even tell me until he gets back cause he knows I'll get mad. is this normal? any tips on what to do? :(

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  • mariamariamaria
    12 years ago

    I think it is normal.. if i was you i would feel the same way..

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  • eebean2
    11 years ago

    Tell him strait up about the gay likeing ur bf. If he dosnt say anything or avoids the convo, he might like the gay guy... feel bad for anygirls who turn the bf's gay. not to be hateing or anything.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    Hmmm sketchy. Your bf might just be gay.

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    They are a couple.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Your bf is probably gay. I would be pissed too. My bf would never sleep over at sone gay dudes house.

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    From experience gays tend not to do anything when they know their crush is straight, so you should be fine.

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  • Plumpy
    12 years ago

    Well I mean if the guys gay then u really don't have to worry ,seriously! If it was girl them I'd understand but it's a guy lol... Chill alright

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  • Kaydan
    12 years ago

    1.) Your bf isn't doing anything bad and just wants to chill with a guy.
    2.) Your bf is gay and/or experimenting.

    Idk is it's normal. But stuff happens.

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    Umm a little hard to read but i would say that its normal to feel like that still if hes not attracted to guys there should not be any problem...

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  • auzzie
    12 years ago

    "the ones who hate gays are mostly gay".
    That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard.

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